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I have 4 kids and loves them to bits, I have always known I wanted children since I was quite young, No more for me tho lol, My OH he never wanted kids and now he has 4, and he loves them regardless. Most people I know have kids, or have just had their first baby, but I do find it soo odd to understand people who hate children/babies, I understand the ones who simply don't want to have them for other reasons, I remember when I was little my best friends parents were friends with a couple who hated children, they seemed really horrible and scary to me at the time, and pretty much greeted them and left as quickly as possible.
I do feel sorry for those who deny themselves one of the most meaningful things they could ever have, but cest la vie.
Thanks, avene. It made my heart happy to read that. In many ways I applaud those who choose not to have children, even if for purely selfish reasons, but you're absolutely right... it is more of a blessing than a burden to set oneself aside and take care of the needs of another. As the old saying goes, "It is better to give than to receive." Post Merge: July 01, 2013, 10:01:24 AMQuote from: Jemstar666 on July 01, 2013, 09:57:26 AMI have 4 kids and loves them to bits, I have always known I wanted children since I was quite young, No more for me tho lol, My OH he never wanted kids and now he has 4, and he loves them regardless. Most people I know have kids, or have just had their first baby, but I do find it soo odd to understand people who hate children/babies, I understand the ones who simply don't want to have them for other reasons, I remember when I was little my best friends parents were friends with a couple who hated children, they seemed really horrible and scary to me at the time, and pretty much greeted them and left as quickly as possible.Wow, four kiddos!! Soon I will be in the same boat as you. How old are they and what genders? I have two boys, a girl, and a mystery, lol... well, at least until we find out at my next scan at the end of the month. My husband was content with two, so I'm sure he can understand where your OH is coming from. But, just like him, he loves all of his children and wouldn't change it for the world.
I have three children and I love them all. They are so important to me that I would die for them. I wouldn't die for my van, or my television, or my pony collection. It's all garbage in the end. There won't be a U-haul behind my hearse. If those items are not worth dying for, they're not worth living for, either. I do feel sorry for those who deny themselves one of the most meaningful things they could ever have, but cest la vie. Children also make you grow up and realize the world does not revolve around you. (Or, at least, it should.)That said, I do have interests outside of my children, and I do like "stuff." I won't deny that I like "stuff." I just don't want to idolize it.