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Quote from: ponycake on April 14, 2015, 09:32:51 AMShe did actually, the auctions say 'when I decarded her' on a lot of them. lolOkay, fair enough... I admit I do like to buy from those people who decard ponies, and I have several in my collection. I'm thrilled with all of the backcards I've been seeing on eBay lately... I've really been cleaning up. But I don't decard anything myself. Quote from: Freeindeed on April 14, 2015, 09:43:27 AMQuote from: ponycake on April 14, 2015, 09:32:51 AMShe did actually, the auctions say 'when I decarded her' on a lot of them. lolOkay, fair enough... I admit I do like to buy from those people who decard ponies, and I have several in my collection. I'm thrilled with all of the backcards I've been seeing on eBay lately... I've really been cleaning up. But I don't decard anything myself.
She did actually, the auctions say 'when I decarded her' on a lot of them. lol
Quote from: ponycake on April 14, 2015, 09:32:51 AMShe did actually, the auctions say 'when I decarded her' on a lot of them. lolOkay, fair enough... I admit I do like to buy from those people who decard ponies, and I have several in my collection. I'm thrilled with all of the backcards I've been seeing on eBay lately... I've really been cleaning up. But I don't decard anything myself.
My dream was to open up my favorite flutter pony who I no longer had from childhood. We all have dreams and I dont believe on is more important than the other.
Quote from: banditpony on April 14, 2015, 06:08:29 AMMy dream was to open up my favorite flutter pony who I no longer had from childhood. We all have dreams and I dont believe on is more important than the other. The thing is, deboxing a pony does that exact thing. We all choose to follow our dreams but I think it doesn't hurt to consider the bigger picture when doing so. I completely agree that you have as much right to fulfil your wishes and dreams as much as anyone else. But if that wish or dream takes something permanently away from another collector so that they may never ever attain THEIR dream...I think that is a case of considering one dream more important than another. It's not a direct criticism at you or any individual who has done this or considers doing this in the future. It is an overall broad viewpoint for the collectable and the community as a whole entity. I don't think anyone deboxes a pony with any spite in mind, nor any disrespect for other collectors. I think that they just haven't stopped and thought about all the implications for either the community or the collectable as a whole.
Quote from: Taffeta on April 14, 2015, 10:27:21 AMQuote from: banditpony on April 14, 2015, 06:08:29 AMMy dream was to open up my favorite flutter pony who I no longer had from childhood. We all have dreams and I dont believe on is more important than the other. The thing is, deboxing a pony does that exact thing. We all choose to follow our dreams but I think it doesn't hurt to consider the bigger picture when doing so. I completely agree that you have as much right to fulfil your wishes and dreams as much as anyone else. But if that wish or dream takes something permanently away from another collector so that they may never ever attain THEIR dream...I think that is a case of considering one dream more important than another. It's not a direct criticism at you or any individual who has done this or considers doing this in the future. It is an overall broad viewpoint for the collectable and the community as a whole entity. I don't think anyone deboxes a pony with any spite in mind, nor any disrespect for other collectors. I think that they just haven't stopped and thought about all the implications for either the community or the collectable as a whole.These threads make me feel extremely sad because all I wanted was the experience. Is not like I go destroying mib ponies. I opened one and I have an amazing experience because of it.My flutter is one off the biggest highlights of my collection. She means so.much more to me than if I had purchased a minty one. If I had gotten a minty one, I wouldn't care for it. It wasn't purely about being mint. I don't think just anyone should open g1s. But I don't think people should feel guilty either if it is the right choice for them. Also, I mentioned my friends MiB collection because I find it exciting there are definitely still MiB ponies that aren't in the community yet.
Quote from: banditpony on April 14, 2015, 10:49:30 AMQuote from: Taffeta on April 14, 2015, 10:27:21 AMQuote from: banditpony on April 14, 2015, 06:08:29 AMMy dream was to open up my favorite flutter pony who I no longer had from childhood. We all have dreams and I dont believe on is more important than the other. The thing is, deboxing a pony does that exact thing. We all choose to follow our dreams but I think it doesn't hurt to consider the bigger picture when doing so. I completely agree that you have as much right to fulfil your wishes and dreams as much as anyone else. But if that wish or dream takes something permanently away from another collector so that they may never ever attain THEIR dream...I think that is a case of considering one dream more important than another. It's not a direct criticism at you or any individual who has done this or considers doing this in the future. It is an overall broad viewpoint for the collectable and the community as a whole entity. I don't think anyone deboxes a pony with any spite in mind, nor any disrespect for other collectors. I think that they just haven't stopped and thought about all the implications for either the community or the collectable as a whole.These threads make me feel extremely sad because all I wanted was the experience. Is not like I go destroying mib ponies. I opened one and I have an amazing experience because of it.My flutter is one off the biggest highlights of my collection. She means so.much more to me than if I had purchased a minty one. If I had gotten a minty one, I wouldn't care for it. It wasn't purely about being mint. I don't think just anyone should open g1s. But I don't think people should feel guilty either if it is the right choice for them. Also, I mentioned my friends MiB collection because I find it exciting there are definitely still MiB ponies that aren't in the community yet. If that's what you want to do do it. If it means a lot to you then that's what matters. I'm torn on the 'ethics' of it and don't really agree that people need to think of the community
I would not seek out MOC ponies necessarily to decard, and a lot of them if they came into my hands I could see passing on to a MOC collector. However there are certain ponies where like Banditpony I would decard them because it is something that I have dreamed of doing.Yes I see how my doing that takes "the dream" away from a MOC collector, which might be unfair to them, but at the same time it would be unfair for them to take the dream of opening certain ponies away from me.Pretty much the only ponies that have left my collection since childhood were ones that were given as gifts to friends or a couple of extras that Hannah and I had to sell last December to help our family have a Christmas.I love all my ponies, they are all special to me, but the ones that I've either opened personally or received as a gift are a lot more special to me.I think in the end it is a personal choice where every varied collector probably feels very strongly about their opinions. To each there own, I see both sides of the story, but in the end the only choice that will really matter to me is my own.
Quote from: TwistedRiver on April 14, 2015, 12:04:09 PMI would not seek out MOC ponies necessarily to decard, and a lot of them if they came into my hands I could see passing on to a MOC collector. However there are certain ponies where like Banditpony I would decard them because it is something that I have dreamed of doing.Yes I see how my doing that takes "the dream" away from a MOC collector, which might be unfair to them, but at the same time it would be unfair for them to take the dream of opening certain ponies away from me.Pretty much the only ponies that have left my collection since childhood were ones that were given as gifts to friends or a couple of extras that Hannah and I had to sell last December to help our family have a Christmas.I love all my ponies, they are all special to me, but the ones that I've either opened personally or received as a gift are a lot more special to me.I think in the end it is a personal choice where every varied collector probably feels very strongly about their opinions. To each there own, I see both sides of the story, but in the end the only choice that will really matter to me is my own.Sis put it a lot better than I could. Reading through these posts it seems like an attack on anyone who opens their ponies even though I know that is not the intention. Opening a pony does not destroy it. I also don't find collections of boxed ponies nearly as appealing to the eye. Ponies were meant to opened. To have their hair brushed and have light kisses on the nose. I would never look down on someone for opening something that belongs to them... I think it's kind of cruel to expect people to put the community first by not enjoying their ponies..? For many of us our love for ponies came long before we knew what a community even was. A year or so ago I got a MOC g2 Silver Swirl and decarded her immediately. I got her with the intentions of opening her. However that was because no matter how much I searched I could not find one for sale even without accessories but I was thrilled to have her complete. I still intend to buy at least one G1 to open because I never got to experience a brand new G1 pony. I'll probably get a lot of flack for this but hey if I buy it it's mine to do as I please. Granted if I ever found an unopened Mimic or Rapunzel then no, I wouldn't open them. They'd be sold/traded to someone who really wants them, even if they want to open them. I also think it's very unfair to refuse to sell to someone because they want to open it..??? It's just that a lot of reactions here seem like the question was would you ever toss a pony into a bonfire?In the end it's all about the happiness the pony brings to the individual. We shouldn't have to abide by expectations like this?? I don't intend to ever give up my collection so what should it matter? I refuse to make my choices based off the fact that someday I might not be here and it will be sold off and deemed 'worthless' because I opened them. Sorry for getting so riled up over this. Just how I feel.
In the end it's all about the happiness the pony brings to the individual. We shouldn't have to abide by expectations like this?? I don't intend to ever give up my collection so what should it matter? I refuse to make my choices based off the fact that someday I might not be here and it will be sold off and deemed 'worthless' because I opened them.