Looking for advice (Swap related)

[Sunshine]

Sorry mods - if this should be in TS, kick it over please - I wasn't entirely sure.

I wanted to... find someone who's participated in a lot of swaps (or a couple) - pony-focused swaps (not custom swaps) - that isn't participating in the Newbie Swap or Favorite Things swap... because I really would love to find someone who wouldn't mind chatting with me over what items I have for my partner, budgets, packaging... But of course, I don't want to talk amongst my swap groups about it, because I wouldn't want to give any hints to anyone as to who is my partner...

If anyone's willing to like... listen to my "plans" for my swaps, and give me advice (through PM of course, it can't be public! ) or whatever... I'd really appreciate it! These are my first two swaps on the Arena ever, and I want to make sure I just... hit the mark, or above the mark, for my partner and it gets me a little nervous thinking about putting it all together.

Thanks in advance!!