for anyone in a transaction with alatariel-silimaure

[Alatariel-Silimaure]

Hey all... Just wanting to have a centralized location to let people know what's going on.

I've been under an intense amount of stress and going through some major life changes lately and as a result my memory has gone completely wonky I am now realizing.

I have been forgetting about commissions, trades and other transactions at random and I am trying to get things back on track.

If you see this and you have any sort of pending transaction or questions unanswered from me, please send me a reminder messege to help me get back on

 track. I am goingto try to get everything finished up in the next couple weeks and then take a hiatus so I can focus on my wedding plans and my new life.

I am soooo sorry if I have left anyone hanging!!

[ponylady]

  I hope things start looking up for you soon.  And thanks for letting everyone know.  I am sure they will understand.

[Alatariel-Silimaure]

Things are better. My fiance is finally here and we're settling in together. Things are a bit crazy ad a result but I am so happy that he's finally here

[achab1984]

I am happy to hear he is with you now

[Ringlets]

Thanks for posting here   planning a wedding is exciting but super time consuming and sometimes stressful too!  I'm glad you are happy though!   taking time out for important RL stuff is a good idea once your current transactions are done - then you can come here whenever you have the time, without having to worry about commisssions etc while you and your fiance are planning your new life together

[Fred11706]

I just wanted to commend you for taking the time to post this. I've been on the other side of this and had the trader posted something like this instead of creating excuse after excuse I would've been a lot more patient. Wishing you well

[Alatariel-Silimaure]

thanks everyone. I hate leaving people waiting, it just seems like that's happening a lot lately. I don't like making excuses or putting people off, but I've had to do so much of that lately that I'm reaching my own breaking point. I have to get something accomplished, but at the same time, I feel like I can't. I'm having so much trouble adjusting to sharing my space, and my fiance is kinda taking over my favorite spots to work on ponies and trying to banish me to the dining room to work on them, so we're fighting about it a bit, I want to work on my couch at my coffee table like I always have, because that is what's comfortable, I get sore working at the dining room table because the table is just too high and the chairs are not comfortable....

we're stuck in this little apartment until we can get working permission for him so that he can go get a job... once we have two incomes we're going to look at a bigger place ,and I've already told him that I HAVE to have my craft/pony room or it's a no go.