what a horrible situation. I hope that she at least responds to your Paypal dispute megt19
Yep, she's seen it alright...... she has finally responded, shall I quote? "Dude, I JUST got home. I will be in touch tonight as soon as I get settled in."
LOL!! what? - has she been out for 3 months? what a load... anyway..... lets see if she gets in touch now...... not holding my breath!
Post Merge: January 26, 2012, 07:15:59 PMRight - well I just had a big conversation with her...... will copy & paste below:
Not really sure what to make of it - I am inclined to believe her - I am so stupid & gulible in these situations though (obviously) so time will tell I suppose.
I haven't edited anything.... so have a read (if you can be bothered) and make of it what you will.......
Meg
Hi, just wondering whats happening with our newbie cardswap.... are you, as unofficial swap host, going to chase up people who haven't sent their cards? Also have you shipped my FS fluttershy & other items yet? thanks
January 6
Meg
hey, have you shipped my items yet?
January 7
Meg
hello, have you shipped my items yet?
January 7
SK
hi there, didnt see your msg til just now ugh
January 7
SK
i have not, its been a madhouse with lily during the day, i'm sorry. i have a box though, so it will be monday. as for the card swap, i dont think it'll be necessary to really hound people, it was unofficial and i was wishy washy about it to start with [:-/]
i'll put a reminder in our fb group just in case people forgot with my disappearance
but having not sent out cards myself, i'd feel like a royal jerk getting in anyones face about it
January 7
Meg
I know it was unofficial, but I had assumed that people who signed up for it would be kind of committed to it, so disappointing
I especially feel bad for one member, the card she sent me contained hours of work
oh well
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January 7
Meg
Can you please let me know once my stuff has been shipped. I will check in with you again on Monday
January 7
SK
yes, i will
January 7
Meg
tahnsk
lol
thanks
January 10
Meg
Hey, is it Monday there? lol, it's tuesday here, 9:20am, just checking if you posted my stuff yet.... sorry to be a pest [:/]
January 10
SK
hello - it's monday
i haven't been out yet, going to the dropoff when Lily goes to bed tonight [
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January 10
Meg
we have just got a new pony shelf, so we left a space for Fluttershy! her firends can;t wait to see her LOL! now i just have to get the FS princesses...someone on the arena said their brother saw them in a local Target, so maybe I can get them soon [B)]
January 10
SK
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January 11
Meg
Hi
just me again
hows things?
January 11
SK
frustrating - on phone with babysitter
January 11
Meg
[:/]
did you post my stuff?
January 11
SK
yes, one sec.
still on phone.
January 11
Megan Tschirpig
ok, so .... that's a 'yes' ^^? lol
January 21
Meg
hey
hows things?
January 23
Meg
Hello
how are you?
all ok?
i haven't heard from you in a while.....
Tuesday
Meg
can you please confirm that you have sent out my items.... and what date that was ...... i am gettign really worried as you have not been in contact with me ...........
Wednesday
Meg
hi - please contact me asap
Yesterday
Meg
hi, please contact me
I'm not sure why you are ignoring me, I thought we were friends......
16 minutes ago
SK
Hi, I'm sorry, I haven't been intentionally ignoring you. I've been drinking... a LOT lately, and I haven't been paying attention to anything needing my time. During the days I've been either at the boyfriend's house working on renovating the basement, trying to get my school stuff situated (i start college on Monday), or going through other stuff that doesn't really matter because I've been absolutely awful and freaking out over the wrong things.
I sent your stuff out a while back, I don't know why it's not there yet. My mother threw out my envelope full of receipts thinking it was trash, so I have no way of looking up the customs number at this point. Do you just want a refund? Or do you want me to send the items again out of my personal stock?
I'm sorry I've been off the deep end lately... I should not have started drinking again, and I'm having a baaad time with it.
16 minutes ago
SK
None of that is a good excuse for hurting a friend, but I figure you deserve my honest answer at this point after being so awful.
15 minutes ago
Meg
ok
so you did send my stuff last time we talked?
that was January 11th
i think
14 minutes ago
SK
yeah I did, I'm looking at my messages and my date says Jan 10th, I had sent them that day
14 minutes ago
Meg
you said you would send it, then i contacted you to make sure that you had, then you fobbed me off saying you were on the phone & couldnt talk
i havent heard from you since despite many attempts to pm you
i know you were on FB because you were commenting on other peoples stuff
so i know you were ignoring me on purpose, not that you hadnt seen my messages
13 minutes ago
SK
Yeah, I was just either drunk or depressed at the time and made stupid choices. I've been online via ipad or cell phone mostly. This is one of the first nights Lily and I had been home
12 minutes ago
Meg
ok, well i can only give you the benefit of the doubt i suppose & hope my stuff arrives soon
i will leave the paypal dispute open for now though.... i'm sure you can understand that
what about everyone else?
there are a few on the Arena still looking for you including a newbie custom swap partner?
do you want me to update them?
have you sent out all their stuff?
is this too many questions?]
are you drunk now?
11 minutes ago
SK
Oh crap! The swaps... I have those and I never sent them out. If you can post my email address, please do - and anyone who's still expecting something, please have them message me. No, I'm sober for the first night in like 2 months.
I don't even know my password for the arena anymore. I changed it a while ago, and haven't logged in for a while
10 minutes ago
Meg
yeah, its a whole new forum now, been updated while you were drunk LOL
20 minutes ago
Meg
sorry not funny
it was down for about a week so a few things got mixed up & i'm sure people will forgive you if you can just get your crap together
20 minutes ago
SK
lol, its alright, it's pathetic and I have to laugh at myself too or else it gets... just sad.
honestly i'm too humiliated to go back
i screwed up way too much.
19 minutes ago
Meg
some have already left you negative feedback though
most are waiting & hoping you'll get on top of this
so after last time with the 'customs forms debacle' did you start selling again? or is this all stuff from that same time?
17 minutes ago
SK
No, I think they're just a couple of things that got messed up FROM that thing. I had a couple orders I left something out of, and the swaps i forgot to send
I deserve the negative feedback, i screwed up waaay badly.
16 minutes ago
Meg
Well at least you're ok.... are you?
i will delete my posts off your wall
i just didnt know what else to do to get your attention
15 minutes ago
SK
I'm... going to be ok. I haven't been. I've been depressed and tapered off my addiction meds, and picked up drinking instead.
14 minutes ago
Meg
hmmmm.... well i don;t know what to say..... are you getting help?
13 minutes ago
SK
I am, and so is the boyfriend.
13 minutes ago
Meg
oh no, has he been the one to drag you down?
you were doing okay before him yeah?
i PMd him btw, just asking him to tell you to contact me
10 minutes ago
SK
not dragging me down, really... and it just happened to coincide at the same time as I tapered off my suboxone. I used to be an opioid addict, and was on a medication that helped with the cravings, but had been trying to get off of it for a while. When it stopped, my brain went back into addict mode, and alcohol was just available. He's been a drinker for a while though.
and i know [♥] he let me know, which is one of the reasons I made sure to sit down at the computer tonight and not get sucked into my usual time wasting stuff.
8 minutes ago
Meg
haha, what a good boy
he didnt reply so i had no idea if he'd seen it
okay, well I'll you go & get some work done then.
7 minutes ago
SK
he doesn't use facebook much, but he got the email.
7 minutes ago
Meg
I'll update the arena & tell everyone to email you?
7 minutes ago
SK
[email protected] my personal email
6 minutes ago
Meg
cool, will let everyone know that you are planning to make everything right......
6 minutes ago
SK
and I may take a couple days to respond - have to study for placement exams, and doing reno work this weekend
6 minutes ago
Meg
maybe if you just send a quick reply letting people know that you have received their email & you will get to it when you have time....... thats what peed me off themost, just getting no response
5 minutes ago
SK
I can do that.
5 minutes ago
Meg
Great - thankyou
so i think i can leave my paypal dispute open for 20 days, i'm sure my stuff will arrive in that time & then i will close it.
2 minutes ago
SK
Understandable, and I totally respect that.
2 minutes ago
Meg
great - will update Arena now - thanks for chatting, i hope things start looking up for you...