Thanks, everyone!
I did, indeed, move from Minneapolis to Los Angeles to follow my husband's dream. Unfortunately, it became very evident once we were there that I had been fooling myself into believing that this would be the move where we finally "made it". After 17 years of struggle, I finally broke the co-dependent cycle and realized that my husband was a manchild. I left, and came back to St. Paul, where I live now.
I came back, found an AMAZING job (within 4 days of landing), moved in with friends and started dating a friend of 9 years. We just got engaged last month (living together has been AWESOME, he's an actual partner, and I never have to caretake), and life is really good! Everything that has happened since I left to focus on myself has been amazing.
Ponies are a bit of a trigger for me...I am still very mad at myself that I sold my beloved ponies in order to make a move that I didn't even want to make. So, I am buying back a lot of those ponies now, as a sort of apology to myself. My fiance loves the idea, and has gotten me a few himself. I didn't sell ALL of my ponies or anything, just some that I really do miss.
So, yeah. TL;DR = I am back to reconnect, and to replace the ponies I sold. <3