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TCB => Trader & Shipping Support => Topic started by: Sandra on January 18, 2013, 09:47:17 PM
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In November, I bought a rather rare pony for $60 from a very popular seller on eBay. However, weeks went by without any package arriving. The tracking number the seller posted shows that the package doesn't exist, and the length of the tracking number itself seems incorrect. I asked the seller about this, and they said they had been to the post office and the tracking number was pre-printed from eBay. Nevertheless, I have still not received the pony and the tracking number still shows nothing.
I contacted the seller and they said they were willing to go half and half on the pony, as this would be fair to both of us. I messaged them back telling them while I didn't think it was their fault, I still wanted a full refund because I did not receive the package I paid for. I just got a snarky reply back today, telling me how it would not be fair to the seller because they are now out a rare pony and the $60 I paid for it. They said they "have to do what I want" because they don't want negative feedback.
I have never had this happen to me and am unsure how to respond. I've spent probably around $600-$700 on this seller's ponies in the fall and winter of last year and they have always been nice and courteous to me. I was a very loyal customer to them and am a little surprised with their reply. I don't want this to negatively affect the business we do, because I do intend buying more ponies from them as time goes on. Should I just agree to pay half in order to not taint our relationship? I don't think it's fair to me as a buyer, but I also see where they are coming from since it is a rarer pony. What should I do?
I apologize if I didn't put this in the right board. I thought this one would be most appropriate.
[Moving to Trader Support for you --- Thanks, LadyG :) ]
EDIT: Update below. Ugh.
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Bummer! That is a difficult situation, but once this gets moved to Trader Support I'm sure you will get plenty of good advice. Sounds to me like the seller was having a seriously bad day, especially if you have dealt with her before with good results. But not receiving an accurate tracking number is strange to me especially if you paid for it. I hope you get everything worked out for the best!
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Bummer! That is a difficult situation, but once this gets moved to Trader Support I'm sure you will get plenty of good advice. Sounds to me like the seller was having a seriously bad day, especially if you have dealt with her before with good results. But not receiving an accurate tracking number is strange to me especially if you paid for it. I hope you get everything worked out for the best!
Thank you!
And oops, I didn't realize that's what Trader Support was for. I never made my way over to that board.
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I understand where the seller is coming from. You have bought several times from them means you know they are trustworthy, and now that a rare pony is missing, it means they are making a double loss by losing a rare pony to the mail and refunding you the full $60. Also, if the pony ever turns up a few weeks or months down the road, they are pretty sure you won't bother paying them back the money either. Not to say you lack integrity or anything, but most people just wouldn't. I would have been reluctant if it was me too. They are complying now just to avoid a negative, so I can feel some indignity there, like they feel it's unfair for their side as well.
I don't know about you, but by buying off ebay, I feel that people should know that they are taking a risk, and I am prepared to take that risk when I bid on that item with a seller whom I think should be trustworthy from past records. If the seller is out and out to scam me, I'll definitely take harsh actions against him, but if it's a situation like yours, I'm likely to split half-half with the seller.
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I understand the situation from both point of views but sadly the seller is responsible. If it's a rare pony this shipping should have been with insurance so they were protected against this type of situation. Open a case through ebay and let them handle it. They will view the tracking number and see it wasn't ever delivered and side with the buyer and you will be refunded 100%. Once your money is returned then you can leave them a positive as they are trying to work with you.
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Thats a really sad situation - especially for the seller to get mad at you even though you have had plenty good transactions before with them :( . I do understand both sides of this , and in Arena transactions where there is proof that the seller sent the item, but the buyer never received, then one of the fairest solutions is to go half and half. Its usually different to that on ebay though - if the parcel doesnt arrive then more often than not they have to give the buyer a full refund. In this case there *was* a tracking number provided , and if it had worked then yes it would prove the seller did send the parcel and the half refund would have been fair, but the tracking didnt ever work, and even some popular sellers have made mistakes or not sent itmes out in the past...so perhaps it is best to open a case and let ebay decide. If they decide that the seller did send the package and its neither their fault nor yours, there is a chance (a very small one, but I've had it happen to me in the past) that ebay will refund you themselves and not take the money from the seller. The strongest possiblilty is though that they will make the seller give you a full refund.
Its true that that may effect whether or not that seller lets you buy from them again though ... so its a toughie situation :yikes:
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I am sorry to hear of your troubles.
It's a rather unfortunate situation since you have bought ponies previous from them. But before I answer your question can I ask where the pony was coming from...overseas, US? And also when was the pony shipped? I ask that because you say November and depending on when in November, you maybe over your 45 days to open a case. :huh:
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I am sorry to hear of your troubles.
It's a rather unfortunate situation since you have bought ponies previous from them. But before I answer your question can I ask where the pony was coming from...overseas, US? And also when was the pony shipped? I ask that because you say November and depending on when in November, you maybe over your 45 days to open a case. :huh:
It was late November, and I am still within the time limit to open a case. Also, this was coming from within the US. I looked at the seller's feedback and there were some mentions of shipping errors by the seller from other buyers. They have on one occassion forgotten to ship something to me, but the issue was resolved quickly with no hard feelings.
I'm just not sure why the tracking number would be so off. It doesn't have the minimum amount of numbers a usual USPS tracking number does. They swear that they typed it in exactly how it was given to them.
Another thing that perplexes me is something that they wrote in their message. They said something along the lines of, "the package is tracked all through the US, but when it reaches your country it gets lost and it's not my fault." However, I'm not in another country. I live in the US and so do they. I'm wondering if maybe they shipped my package to the wrong address, maybe overseas? I messaged them back telling them this but have not gotten a reply yet.
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I understand that the buyer is upset that they are now out $60 but that's no way to behave. You've bought things from this seller before so they should have more trust in you. I'd also be a little suspicious if the tracking number is off. I hope things work out and the pony gets to you and your able to show the seller your an honest person. But if the pony's not in your hands yet I would open a case.
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I would probably most definitely open a case then. There are to many discrepancies at this point. And the biggest being that you have a tracking number that does not work. The second being that your both in the US. It is very rare a package goes missing or is in limbo for months.
When you open the case she will have to show proof of shipping with a working traceable number. So she either needs to find her receipt and recheck that number to submit, or do the right thing and ship your pony or refund your money. Because ebay will side with you if she can not provide that.
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I would also open a case, especially with it sounding like she sent your package to the wrong address, internationally no less. If you paid for tracking and are not receiving any indication that your items have shipped, that is concerning. Obviously a scanned receipt is not Paypal-valid proof of shipment, but it's a lot easier to have patience when your 3 lb. Ebay auction of ponies seems to have a similar shipping date to a package weighing 3 lbs at the post office, being delivered to your zipcode. USPS receipts at least have THAT info on them!
It's terrible that she even mentioned feedback in her response to you - I realize that it's more common for a buyer to mention the FB, but really... :(
She could have agreed to escalate with her post office with her insurance claim to recoup her loss while the Paypal case is being processed, and hope that the pony still shows up at some point. Then you, as the buyer, could re-send the money. :D And she can have some perspective on which shipping services she uses - maybe a post office in the next town over would be more timely/efficient in the future?
Regardless of how much business you have done in the past that is positive, I think you need to step back and evaluate how this experience has given you perspective. You are ABSOLUTELY correct that this is what tracking, registration, delivery confirmation, insurance, and all the other services are offered for! A small business is a small business is a business, period. Incorporated or not. Shipping fees/services from courier and parcel delivery entities are part of the cost.
I hope that you are able to work out something amicably but it sounds like you have answered your own question about whether to think about future purchases or not. *ponyhugs*
I hope your pony arrives soon! Please keep us informed!
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I understand the situation from both point of views but sadly the seller is responsible. If it's a rare pony this shipping should have been with insurance so they were protected against this type of situation. Open a case through ebay and let them handle it. They will view the tracking number and see it wasn't ever delivered and side with the buyer and you will be refunded 100%. Once your money is returned then you can leave them a positive as they are trying to work with you.
This.
Insurance is for the seller's protection. If the buyer hasn't received their item, they get a refund minus the snarky additude. File a claim immedeatly.
It astonishes me that the seller would be so callous towards a repeat buyer like that.
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If this item is coming from the US and going somewhere within the US, then I see no reason why the package can't be found at some point. There is always the possibility that the carrier who picked it up did not scan it or dropped it somewhere. It should turn up, but either way, if I were your seller, I would be refunding you or giving you store credit.
Best of luck to you, and yes I would open a case too.
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As with everyone else, you really need to open up a case on eBay immediately.
Unfortunately at the end of the day if the item gets lost it's the sellers responsibility to refund the money, and they shouldn't be asking you to go halves with them - eBay will side with you immediately and give you all your money back. It sounds harsh but no way would I even consider paying half, it's their responsibility not yours!! Whilst I appreciate that as a seller it can be frustrating when an expensive item goes missing, at the same time they should cover themselves and get a fully traceable and insured shipping method for expensive items to cover themselves and ask for the extra postage cost when they list the item on eBay. They took the risk sending it in a way that leaves them open, therefore they have no one but themselves to blame for losing money.
The problem is whilst they can approach you and say they sent the item etc etc, they gave you a "faulty" tracking number and you don't know that they actually did send the item. Sadly these days you can never be sure with even the most supposedly reliable person, you only have to look back through the trader support section to see!
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Okay, I was going to wait and still talk with her about this before opening a claim. After I asked her about what she meant about the "when it gets in my country" thing, she emailed back saying that she thought I was overseas. Anyway, before I even got to reply, I got a notice from PayPal telling me she refunded HALF, before we even reached an agreement. This is what she put in the PayPal message:
"[Name removed] has issued a refund for $35.03 USD of your original payment.
See Refund Details below for more information.
Message from merchant: Hi, this is all I have to pay on this pony. It is more than half and I am left without a pony And $35.03. I have never paid all myself on any lost pony. Some did not expect any, and others were very happy that I would even pay half. "
I think that's so rude! I'm definitely filing a claim... This is ridiculous. I've spent so much money on her ponies last fall, I find it so disrespectful that she treated me that way. What's worse is that she is a very reputable pony seller on eBay and has tons of business. I'm disgusted.
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I don't understand how some people think that is the proper way to conduct a business. The seller is acting very childish and just plain rude. She's not trying to work with you she has her mind set so there no changing it. You did all you could and you even went beyond that, but enough is enough.
Good luck with your claim!! I hope it works out in your favor.
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OMG That is so ridiculous! As a seller, she should have insured it was shipped properly with proper tracking number. You should definitely open a claim. Let us know how it works out!
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Make sure to refund her that half payment because she might try to come back at you once you file a claim and say you agreed and she paid you half. You can refuse the payment with paypal.
Good Luck!
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what the heck!? file a claim now and refuse that refund. save and send all your conversations with her to paypal. as a seller i would never EVER treat a customer that way, let alone a loyal repeat one.
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Seller is responsible to make sure the item gets to you. Her problem if she doesn't purchase insurance. She needs to file a claim at the PO to open an investigation on the package. Open a claim for the rest of your money.
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I agree with the others - refuse the partial refund, open a claim and when it's all done with, I'd seriously be considering leaving a negative for poor attitude, or at best a neutral.
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wow I am happy you are asking for a refund and to be honest I wouldn't deal with this seller again in the future
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may i ask the sellers name? i want to avoid like the plague
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:shocked: :shocked: :shocked: That is just disgusting, please share their ebay name as although I do not buy many ponies of ebay, my sister does
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The seller is poniesandpetals on eBay.
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She's been brought up before
http://mlparena.com/mlp/index.php/topic,308205.msg397070.html#msg397070 (http://mlparena.com/mlp/index.php/topic,308205.msg397070.html#msg397070)
http://mlparena.com/mlp/index.php/topic,308892.msg404799.html#msg404799 (http://mlparena.com/mlp/index.php/topic,308892.msg404799.html#msg404799)
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Thanks for sharing Ebay I ID. I recently was interested in one of her ponies but something seemed suspicious about it. She currently has an Argie Lofty for sale that I was interested in, but when I searched for completed/sold auctions for her to determine what the going price was, I noticed she used the exact same picture for another Argie Lofty she sold on Nov.29th for $175. So, I'm not sure if the buyer fell through or she is just re-using pictures, but that made me suspicious enough to not bid.
Edit: I also went back to check if feedback had been left for the first Argie Lofty she sold and there wasn't any left for her on that particular item NOR was there any kind of negative left for a NPB.
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Ohhhh, *that* Ebay seller. :( ARRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRGH.
I am sorry to hear that I have to add her ID to additional categories! Sadly, she is in nearly all of them, despite being such a popular seller on Ebay. :(
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oh dear :( now we know who the seller is , unfortunately the issues you've had with her do not surprise me :yikes: I would send her that refund back and open that case right away. Dont deal with her directly, let ebay sort the situation out. Plus she sells a lot of ponies so of course she can afford to refund you the whole price!
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ahh I have heard that name before man its sounds best just to say away from her, thanks for the heads up sorry about your case : /
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Wow thank you so much for bringing this up, I've been looking at lots and lots of that sellers items, and really appreciate the insight into her "new" attitude... sheesh! I'm so sorry you had to go through all of that, and the fact that she just 'decided' to refund you 1/2 without even talking to you is just plain ridiculous. I get it, it hurts to lose $60 and a pony, but as many have said - INSURANCE for rare ponies. She should know that. Sounds just plain shady. I hope you open a case and get it all worked out!
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Yikes. Okay guys, so I feel a little stupid for posting now. I was so sure that I was within the 45-day limit for filing a claim. Turns out... I was just a few days short.
Without much hope, I decided to just accept the half refund as there was nothing more I could do at that point. I was rather angry with both myself and the seller, so I sent her a message letting her know I would accept the half that she refunded me. I don't know if any of this sounded rude, but I *tried* to keep my message civil and polite:
"Dear poniesandpetals,
You know what, fine. There's nothing I can do either way, as I'm sure you know that this case is past the 45 day maximum that I have to file a claim with eBay. It's unfortunate that I had a tragic death in the family in the month of December, so I was off of eBay for a long time, and the time limit quickly escaped.
I would, however, like to remind you that eBay's Buyer Protection guarantees that if a case is opened within the 45-day time limit for an item not received, eBay always sides with the buyer and grants a FULL refund. So I don't think it's right for you to believe it's not within your responsibility to pay for an item that did not reach its destination. If I had opened a case, there is no question that I would have received all of my money back. It's just the unfortunate truth of online auctions, regardless if it was your fault or not.
Now, I am still in the time limit to leave feedback. If I were a vengeful person, there's no doubt in my mind that I'd leave you negative feedback. Especially since your messages quickly went from, "I'll have to do what you want because of feedback," to, "Here is more than half of your money back, this is more than I owe." However, I've made the decision to just not leave any feedback at all. Last fall, I spent literally hundreds of dollars buying ponies from you (I possibly even spent more than $1000, I'm afraid to go look.) As such, you were always courteous and kind and my items were always shipped out promptly. Despite all of this and the partial refund I was given, I feel like I was treated negatively. I am not going to hold any hostility towards you because I intend on buying more ponies from you as time goes on. Your ponies are generally as described and arrive packaged safely. I hope this doesn't happen again, and I also hope we can continue on with business despite all of this. I'd just like to let you know that this left a very bad taste in my mouth.
Thanks for your time."
Anyway, there is light at the end of this tunnel.
I got a response today, followed by a message from PayPal.
This is what it said: "If you would check your paypal you will see that I did refund more than half of your money. I am not going to read all of this condeming me anymore"
She refunded me the rest of my money! I had just about given up on this transaction and wanted to just put my last two cents in. I guess she just decided to give me a full refund to get me to shut up? I don't know if I'm happy with how this ended, considering her message was still quite bitter towards me (which I wanted to avoid), but I am satisfied now that I got my money back. Lesson learned.
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how oddball :( sorry for your woes. just take the refunds and i would suggest not purchasing again from her.
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how oddball :( sorry for your woes. just take the refunds and i would suggest not purchasing again from her.
Ugh... I know. I can't help myself. She has such gorgeous ponies, I just wish her attitude was a little nicer.
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Well I am glad that you received a full refund.
I understand it is hard to be a seller on ebay somedays but you have to take the good with the bad sometimes. And considering you were a repeat customer over and over again she should have handled it in a more professional manner. I mean if you were out to scam her, you would have along time ago with a much larger purchase.
It is not your fault there was not a sufficient tracking/delivery confirmation number that she should have provided you with to begin with and especially after you told her it was bogus.
As far as ever purchasing from her again, the choice is oviously yours. I would just make sure if you do that she provides you with shipping information right away and make sure to double check the tracking number.
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I'm very glad to hear she did give you the full refund in the end :hug: :bigups: However I dont like the tone of her response to you. very unprofessional and certainly not the way to talk to a good customer! Personally I would not buy from her again if I were you, on this incident alone, and I know others have had issues with her too , although of course in the end whether you deal with her or not again is completely your own choice :awake:
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Thank you for keeping us updated, I nearly bid on her whizzer as it looks stunning but with that attitude she has lost a potential buyer, there will be others im sure ^.^