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Even though things are a little bit more clear now for everyone, I have decided to not come back to the Arena. I know things could have been handled better. But I don't think I can forget what was being said yesterday. I've been told that the Facebook thread was even worse. And actually I'm glad I didn't have to read all that. Some people said I was on my way to becoming a bad trader and likely will get banned in the future.
"Tak told me that the seller agreed to 800 dollars. I told Tak that I couldn't afford that either. Because at the time it was still early in the month and I always get my money around the 20th. So I asked Tak if she could ask the seller if it was possible to wait untill that date."
I am going to have to agree with Cassie85. I know it's harsh, but you should have worked something out with Tak and the seller before doing the chargeback. I mean, it's gotta be a pretty unpleasant surprise to wake up one day and see a chargeback for $800 on your Paypal account. It would ruin my day. I'd probably have a panic attack.I know some of the comments may hurt, but what you did was also pretty hurtful to the parties involved. There were other ways to go about this.
Quote from: DazzleKitty on August 03, 2016, 12:43:24 PMI am going to have to agree with Cassie85. I know it's harsh, but you should have worked something out with Tak and the seller before doing the chargeback. I mean, it's gotta be a pretty unpleasant surprise to wake up one day and see a chargeback for $800 on your Paypal account. It would ruin my day. I'd probably have a panic attack.I know some of the comments may hurt, but what you did was also pretty hurtful to the parties involved. There were other ways to go about this.The way I read it, Tak initiated the charge back against the seller not Pierlala.
Quote from: kitkatvintage on August 03, 2016, 01:59:37 PMQuote from: DazzleKitty on August 03, 2016, 12:43:24 PMI am going to have to agree with Cassie85. I know it's harsh, but you should have worked something out with Tak and the seller before doing the chargeback. I mean, it's gotta be a pretty unpleasant surprise to wake up one day and see a chargeback for $800 on your Paypal account. It would ruin my day. I'd probably have a panic attack.I know some of the comments may hurt, but what you did was also pretty hurtful to the parties involved. There were other ways to go about this.The way I read it, Tak initiated the charge back against the seller not Pierlala. At Pierlala's request, because it would get the money back faster so Pierlala could use it to buy another Rapunzel that was on ebay at the time.