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Re: 3 Complete Big Brothers...
« Reply #45 on: May 09, 2013, 02:37:37 AM »
I would have also been mad at the person for not selling it. I almost think she was doing it just to make the topic creator mad. A two year old won't even remember if a few ponies go missing.

I would have been furious too. No, I wouldn't have said anything rude to her, but I would have been fuming inside.

I don't understand how you think you have the right to be furious or fuming in this scenario.  If I come to your home and see something I like and I offer you money for it - do I have a right to be furious at you when you say no, for whatever reason? 

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Re: 3 Complete Big Brothers...
« Reply #46 on: May 09, 2013, 03:06:10 AM »
Y'all may have noticed that so far there has only been a delicate prod in this thread to not start arguments or get angry or accusatory with one another.

Well...this is the big fat warning...stay chill or its locked...its your call
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Re: 3 Complete Big Brothers...
« Reply #47 on: May 09, 2013, 04:44:14 AM »
Y'all may have noticed that so far there has only been a delicate prod in this thread to not start arguments or get angry or accusatory with one another.

Well...this is the big fat warning...stay chill or its locked...its your call


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Re: 3 Complete Big Brothers...
« Reply #48 on: May 09, 2013, 04:47:51 AM »
I would have also been mad at the person for not selling it. I almost think she was doing it just to make the topic creator mad. A two year old won't even remember if a few ponies go missing.

I would have been furious too. No, I wouldn't have said anything rude to her, but I would have been fuming inside.

I don't understand how you think you have the right to be furious or fuming in this scenario.  If I come to your home and see something I like and I offer you money for it - do I have a right to be furious at you when you say no, for whatever reason? 

You don't need to attack me.

I would FEEL furious, but I said I wouldn't say anything to the person. I would just internalize the feelings, okay?

And it's your right to feel however you want. As long as you don't lash out at the person, feel however you need to. You can be angry about something but also be mature about it too and not say anything. I would have been angry in her shoes, but it's not like I would take it out on the person not selling me the ponies or yell at them.

Sorry, I don't mean to start any fights. I just felt a little miffed. I don't want the thread to be locked, but I don't think I should be called out just because of how I would feel in a situation, not how I would act.

There are going to be people who would be angry in this situation, and others who would be totally understanding. It just shows how different people are, but those differences aren't always bad.

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Re: 3 Complete Big Brothers...
« Reply #49 on: May 09, 2013, 05:26:52 AM »
Good bye thread...
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