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I'm one who is very much for telling people how you feel when you feel it. I have no desire to ever look back on my life and wish I'd said or done something before *insert terrible thing here* happened and I didn't have a chance. As of yet I have never regretted telling someone I cared for them, even if those feelings change later. Because no matter what happens at least I know I told them my thoughts and feelings honestly at the time. I think alot of people end up walking around feeling unwanted and lonely when there are alot of people who care for them but no one ever bothers to say anything or they are too afraid of what the other person will think. I want the people in my life to know how I feel about them. I never want anyone to doubt I care. Every relationship and every person is different of course, but that is how things work for me. I should probably add this too though, if you are really worried it could hurt your relationship because it's "too soon". Maybe when you tell him, don't make a big deal of it. Don't wait expectantly for a response or feel bad if it isn't instantly returned. If you don't make him feel like he has to return the feelings or even respond at all, then he won't feel under pressure and things should be fine. And he will know how you feel. He should be free to be able to tell you the same when he is ready, even if it isn't right now, without feeling pressured to say it early. And who knows, he could be sitting at home wondering the exact same thing.
For me it's hard to describe, but I'll try: Say I love you when it would hurt to know you never said it.