Well, the claim has been approved, so she should be getting her refund soon. I'm going to hope this is over soon.
I actually just had another buyer win another auction and wanted to send a check. That's not going to work- I am displaced and have no access to my regular bank around here.
AND I've only sold 4 items on eBay lately! Half of those are problems! If it wasn't for the money, I wouldn't be selling there. UGH.