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Re: Lets talk babies and money..
« Reply #15 on: January 23, 2013, 07:18:11 AM »
I can give you any advise about insurance hospital costs because i live in the uk and we have nhs but as far a pain goes for my first bith i had a epidurl which left me veru spaced out and i dont really remeber anything about it:( for my second i did it drug free and felt so much better afterwards and was able to leave hospital 3 hours after delivery i had amazing midwife who kept me calm x

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Re: Lets talk babies and money..
« Reply #16 on: January 23, 2013, 07:33:51 AM »
in the uk we dont pay for much medical treatment but in the usa it sounds like you pay for every thing ! so i would pay off the debt first plus babies are expensive !xaflamex

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Re: Lets talk babies and money..
« Reply #17 on: January 23, 2013, 07:38:48 AM »
Best of luck with everything! I have no kids so I have no advice, just well wishes!
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Re: Lets talk babies and money..
« Reply #18 on: January 23, 2013, 02:07:42 PM »
In terms of my medical costs and co-pays, hospital fees, etc. ... it was about $800 with my insurance, the whole kit and caboodle.  Not too terrible when you compare it with surgeries or emergency room visits.  This covered all of my prenatal screenings, tests, ultrasounds, the birth, and the hospital stay - and I was a high-risk pregnancy as well, due to having lupus.  I had drugs during my birth, but not an epidural.

As far as the doula ... I have no idea as I didn't use one, but I hear they're pretty costly.  They're not usually covered by health insurance either.

I think one of the most important things you can do is find the right OBGYN for you if you don't use a midwife or doula.  The first OB I went to rubbed me the wrong way, so I found a new one.  He doesn't push C-sections or inductions, or anything you don't need.  He was fabulous, non-intrusive, no BS, and listened to whatever I had to say and gave me an honest answer for everything.  He wasn't into scare tactics either (no unnecessary screenings just to have you worry about something.)  So yeah, there are some good OBs out there.  You just have to shop around if that's an option.

And if you don't want a C section ... best way to avoid one is to not have an induction if you don't need one.  That's what my doc told me.

Now the costs when you have a baby.  I breastfed for 13 months, so no formula here.  I also cloth diapered (compare $1800-2500 for sposies over a child's diaper stage to $200-300 over that same stage for the cloth setup.  Yes, washing is involved, but for the costs and the elimination of a lot of waste, it was well worth it.)

Good luck, whatever you decide!  It's an awesome experience.

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Re: Lets talk babies and money..
« Reply #19 on: January 23, 2013, 02:50:01 PM »
Thanks so much for the advice ya'll! I've been making lists on things we need to check up upon before we take the baby dive!

 

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