Thanks everyone, but don't worry. It is not like they are forcing me to become a member, I am choosing to go there. So I am choosing to accept their rules. I tried to get my friend to come to the arena, but she seems to really like the other board and didn't want to come here. Instead of us both being dead set against each other, I decided to just go along with her. Especially since she is a real life pony friend.
Thanks for the mod names, I will contact one of them and hope they are the right ones.