To get the lighter shade, you could use a dab of yellow with your white, but this will only work to a point before it becomes orange. It could still help brighten the color a bit.
Createx red is a good red, but all reds are a pita, honestly. What are you using to apply the paint? Like painting white over black, it will take ridiculous patience with thin layers to get a close to even appearance. Red and yellow are some of the hardest color to work on a FBR. Have you tried make up sponges?