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I think they look really cute! But for me the price is way too high for a blind box toy :( For that price I could add at least one new actual G1 pony to my collection  :lol: Unless they go on sale, or the price happens to lower, I think I will be holding off.


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Off Topic / Re: Fleas. FLEAS! AUUUUGH!
« on: July 07, 2017, 10:56:59 AM »
I had fleas when I first moved into my apt (I have no pets, so just my luck). I bombed everything in my apt, and then went and washed all my laundry. It seemed to work, no more fleas!

I second what everyone is saying about repeatedly washing and cleaning everything. We had them on my dog growing up, and my mom had to just keep washing, cleaning etc until they were gone. We never bombed, but had hardwood floors.

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Customs / Re: Newest customs-a few more added
« on: July 06, 2017, 11:34:59 AM »
Your customs are always lovely!! I spy my newborn baby bowtie :D
 :lovey:

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I don't want to come off as rude as I do want to help. But at this point, a teenage boy is being bullied and harassed over this. I know he did wrong. But they are trying to make it right. The white knights of the pony community are out in force. And we all know how that works, they won't stop until things are "put right". If you don't want the pony, then I'd suggest making a post on IG that you consider the trade closed and that for people to leave him alone. Otherwise it'll only get worse.

I'm sorry, none of his is your fault; but if you're unwilling to give your address, I think we all need to do some damage control.

Firstly I never ever posted on IG about what he did, I want that to be very clear.
I posted here, and I told some close friends to watch out because of what happened to me.
Until today I had not heard from him. He did message me on IG and I think we have made peace. He apologized for what he did, and I made it clear I did not expect or want my package sent to me.
I've been contacted twice, once on IG, and once here for my address from people I do not know. I really do not feel comfortable giving it out at this time.

This whole post was meant as a warning, how people choose to react and act is not up to me. I'm sorry if he is being bullied, but to be fair I have been too before I even posted anything. I know it's different because he's only 18.
At this point I still consider this resolved and would recommend no one else confront him directly. He mentioned that he wishes to be left alone, so I don't think any further action is needed.

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I just saw him on FB bragging about 3k followers on IG. I will be making a note to avoid/block him. So sorry to hear that happened to you Shelvesofwimsy, especially considering he is perfectly capable of NOT scamming people. -_-

Edit to add, I've had lots of friends on the Autism spectrum, and last I checked in the DSM-IV, "pony related kleptomania" isn't a symptom of Asperger's... :hmm:

Thank you @snapdragon, I totally agree with you. It shouldn't be used as an excuse for his behavior.

@ficklefae at this point I honestly don't feel comfortable giving my address out, and in my mind the trade is over. Even if I received the pony how could I enjoy it? When I still thought of this kid as a "friend" the pony would have been welcomed. But I honestly don't think I would want it now. The whole thing left a bad taste in my mouth. And since it is a custom it's not like I could sell it?  :huh:

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Pony Corral / Re: Thoughts on a replica Adventure Card set??
« on: June 30, 2017, 04:04:46 PM »
I personally think this is an awesome idea!

Just a few notes from someone who is savvy in photoshop:

I would maybe reconsider the watermark placement , and maybe have it go over some part of the image (I know it doesn't look as good). Only because I could see someone scanning a replica, erasing the mark in photoshop, and then reprinting. I hope no one would do that, but it is just much easier to erase on white, than to have it overlap some part of the image.

Or maybe the overlapping watermark could be on part of the rainbow on the back. I'm not sure if its really a big deal or not, but I wanted to mention it :)

Eh.
Anyone who is good in photoshop is able to get around water marks with ease. Something that was scanned, printed on inkjet, and rescanned is going to get ugly moire pattern -- which would more of a general deterrent. 

So I don't think a watermark should be put over the art, because if someone wanted to rescan and reprint they are going to do it anyway.

I guess you're right! I didn't think about the quality loss of being scanned multiple times  :P

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Pony Corral / Re: Thoughts on a replica Adventure Card set??
« on: June 30, 2017, 02:37:18 PM »
I personally think this is an awesome idea!

Just a few notes from someone who is savvy in photoshop:

I would maybe reconsider the watermark placement , and maybe have it go over some part of the image (I know it doesn't look as good). Only because I could see someone scanning a replica, erasing the mark in photoshop, and then reprinting. I hope no one would do that, but it is just much easier to erase on white, than to have it overlap some part of the image.

Or maybe the overlapping watermark could be on part of the rainbow on the back. I'm not sure if its really a big deal or not, but I wanted to mention it :)


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I think the return label would probably be either an image like a jpg or maybe a link from ebay with a label? Either way it will be something you can print at home. If she doesn't send it in a few days I would politely ask again :)

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he has a lot of photos of that parasol - what other ponies did you give him?
It doesnt surprise me he is nice and honest in person - it's so much easier ripping people off online and those other stories show it's not about money, he has money and his mom isn't raising him alone so some lies right from the start :( I started ebaying with 14 and never did such bullshit..

I gave him a Fashion Style Celestia and one other, let me see if I can remember, oh a poor quality G1 Firefly. So 3 ponies total, and one of his responses to someone about me blocking him was "they were mad I didn't ship their package on time", when it was more of, "I'm upset you will never be shipping my package.". :blink:

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SoW, I am so sorry to hear that you had issues with positive_vibes! I can honestly say that I am only newly introduced to him myself, but I really would not have expected this news concerning his past transactions. I personally sold several ponies to him in person on Saturday at the Southeast Pony Meet and he never asked for freebies or discounts or anything else that I would have considered to be in bad form. He was obviously young, inexperienced and now that I know he has Aspergers it seems only too obvious. I personally found him to be pleasant and rather funny.
 

I am quite interested to see if anyone else posts having had any similar issues with him.

@KCherry and @MonstarNomNom

After learning that information from another attendee, his behavior and actions make much more sense to me now. I am not excusing his online behavior, since it did really upset me when it happened, but in hind sight it is much easier to move on past this transaction. I think if anything his parents need to be more involved in his interactions online if he is buying and trading ponies.

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Just wondering, but did the OP directly tell him "That's scamming, you are stealing from me" after he said he couldn't ever pay for the pony?  I know it seems super obvious, but some kids are honestly dumb and 'don't get it' until they hear it directly, lol.   If the OP hasn't confronted him directly then my suggestion is:  do that.  Give him a chance to make things right.  Say "Within one month I expect either Minty back, my trade pony (it was a trade, right?), or this amount of money in compensation."  Something with a solid deadline, so he can't just stall. And if he doesn't make good, that's when you post to the Facebook group telling what happened, or whatnot.

I don't think sending a letter to his parents is a good idea.  I think most parents would find it super creepy to know someone is looking up their personal information, even if their kid did something wrong.

So I don't think I ever said directly that he was scamming or stealing from me. From his general attitude all of my earnest comments were meant with extremely immature ones, so I honestly do not think it would have done any good. Also since this was a few months back I'm not sure I want to open this can of worms back up with him.


Transcript from a conversation I had with him after blocking (he messaged from his side account):

Him: Did you block me?

Me: Obviously you know I blocked you because you made multiple IG posts painting me as a villain. You were blocked for deciding not to send your half of a trade. End of story. I'm an adult and do not have time for people who mooch off of others kindness. I work hard for everything I have. Also I didn't call you out on IG and lie about what happened, and you got three ponies for free. So please let it go and move on."

Him: I have moved on  :lol:

Him: Lol you think I mooch off of other people's kindness plz  :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:




No reply about getting free ponies etc. So I decided it really was not worth my energy to keep replying. But I see that he's been "trading" and just want the get the awareness out.



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This is a long story but to sum it up:

Around Jan-Feb of this year a IG user asked to trade my Parasol for a custom pony of his, and he chose a perfume puff style Minty. I said yes because I thought "why not?" even though I didn't really need a Minty.

Flash forward the kids birthday is coming up (and I know this because he's made it very obvious) so I decide to send him his pony Parasol early so he can have it for his birthday. He has told me a few times that he will be sending it soon but his mom needs money first? But anyway as a birthday gift I throw in 2 extra ponies - including a Fashion Style Celestia.

For the next few months I would politely ask when he would be sending my pony, and was met with tons of excuses. Finally sometime in March I basically asked him up front if he would ever send it. This was after he had claimed a pony from my sale, and when I asked for his paypal info he told me "oh I have no money nvm" as if he would be getting it for free. This upset me and prompted me to confront him.

In the end he said "I probably won't be able to send you the pony I'm so sorry about this."

So I blocked him, and then he wrote some hate posts about me blocking him for giving him free ponies  :blink:

Flash forward to now and I can see via IG that all of these people in our pony community have been giving him what I can only assume to be free ponies. Maybe it is because they feel bad? I know at first I did, he is 15 and maybe doesn't have a lot of money to spend on a hobby. But I want others to be aware if they've been in contact with him. Maybe he has completed some trades, but at least on my end this is considered stealing. Even if you're 17 you should know better than to take advantage of others kindness. I've told some of my close friends about this but I wanted to come forward in case others have had a similar experience.

I'm not sure if he is a member of the arena but on Instagram he has been mlp_positive_vibes, mlp_positive_vibes_photography, and is currently mlp_positive_vibes_2k18


Has anyone else traded with him?



Mods: please let me know if I should remove screen names.


*I have many screenshots if anyone is interested.

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The Dollhouse / Re: My Handmade Cat Dolls
« on: June 16, 2017, 10:26:20 AM »
Oh my goshhhhh!! THESE ARE AMAZING!!! Seriously in love! What amazing talent!! I love them!

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Off Topic / Re: Help identify a weird 90s cartoon
« on: June 14, 2017, 01:15:19 PM »
Many years ago (well, probably around 1997-2000), when I was just a little Shaz, dwelling in the merry land of England, I saw part of a really weird cartoon. I'm not sure if it was a film or just an episode of something; for whatever reason, I only saw a few minutes, but it was so bizarre (even by 90s cartoon standards) that I remember it.
There was some sort of ratlike creature in a very frilly dress, she seemed to be a queen or something. Then a young human girl got put into a pit, which happened to contain a dead gnome. The gnome was pretty large in comparison to the girl and had a white beard. I remember her going "*gasp* a dead gnome!" and kneeling down next to him.
I have tried searching online for this a few times, but have never got far with it. I'm starting to think I made it up! Which would be a shame, as it seems like the kind of odd/dark cartoon I'd probably quite enjoy watching now.
Anyone any idea what it might be?

I wish I knew! The only thing I can think of, which almost certainly isn't it, is Thumbelina. There is a scene with a mouse in a frilly dress, and mean old mole and a human girl?

Otherwise I hope someone knows!

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Off Topic / Re: I'm going to Japan! Travel suggestions?
« on: June 12, 2017, 10:30:10 AM »
I wanted to go to Fox Village too but from what I read, its not very accessiable unless you can drive in Japan. From Tokyo, a shinkansen ticket to whatever village is closest was $200 and then its like 30 miles by taxi. The cheapest would be a bus to Fukushima, spend the night somewhere and then take a train to the closest village, and then take a taxi.  :cry:

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That is very reassuring to hear lol. I am trying to learn just enough so I do not seem very rude lol.
The one time I visited China I was also the only white woman I saw the whole trip haha.

I went solo to both China and Japan not knowing either langauge. I never really felt threatened being a female by myself in either country either.

To me, it seemed like the Chinese are way more blunt and can be mistaken for being rude by westerners but they also seemed more sincere and curious about westerners ( i can't tell you the amount of times I was asked "why are you so fat"). Im guessing its cause we are a novelty there. Whereas in Japan, they are very friendly as well, but I kinda got the feeling that it was just a cover act for a lot of people.

Once my eldery dog passes away, I plan on returning to Asia (hopefully to Japan this time. Although I wouldnt mind a larger city in China)

The fox village info is good to know! I thought it would be a train ride and then relatively easy to get to, but now I'm glad we are passing on it this trip :D

I had the weirdest/great experiences in china being a western woman lol. In Shenzen a group of older Chinese women just suddenly surrounded me in excited speaking and when I said "Hello" they all started giggling. And a lot of people also did the peace sign to me, and when I did it back what excitement hahaha. I was also told by one woman at a theme park "You are..beautiful" which was very sweet and also totally unexpected. I was called sir once though hahah. But in general everyone was very friendly, so I am hoping in Japan they will not turn us away because we're americans  :biggrin:

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