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TCB => Trader & Shipping Support => Topic started by: Moss on August 31, 2014, 05:55:48 PM
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I'm not an ebay user. Well, I wasn't, up until about a month ago...
I've been eyeing various auctions for an LE Elsa Disney doll for a while now. All of the auctions would end just out of my budget, and I was resigned that I'd probably never get her. In a moment of "what the heck, it can't hurt," I messaged a few sellers who had either high BIN prices or doll sets, asking if they'd accept a lower price. Eventually, I got one yes back, she relisted the item for me at the agreed upon price, I bought it, paid shortly after, and all was well.
Now, I had a slight problem with PayPal and a credit card, and just to make sure that she received the payment, I sent her a message on Thursday asking if everything had gone through. She said it had, but since she's newer to ebay she can't get the money for a certain amount of time. She also mentioned that the doll should be shipped on Friday.
On her auctions, it also mentions that she ships on Fridays unless she contacts you otherwise.
I haven't heard anything since Thursday, so I sent her a quick message yesterday morning (Saturday), just asking if she'd been shipped yet. No response. I understand that it's a holiday weekend and everything, but am I being unreasonable in wanting a quick "yes I just haven't updated with tracking yet" or "no but I expect to ship her on blahblahblah?" And I guess this means I'll have to wait until Friday to hear anything...
This wouldn't bother me if I didn't spend so much money on her! This is my first time dealing with ebay, too, and I'm not sure how to proceed. Any advice would be appreciated.
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Don't freak out yet. Most purchases I make never have any contact from the seller. Just give it a week or so. You have from memory 40 days to lodge a claim. You'd know by then if she was trying to scam you.
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If she is a new seller and does not print from home, she might have to go into the post office to get it shipped and get tracking purchased, so if she did not make it there Friday, she would have to wait until tomorrow when is open again:) ,some post offices open Saturdays and others do not.
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I wouldnt worry just yet - although I know thats easier said than done and I had my fair share of issues trying to get that doll as well so i know how you feel :hug: :hug: :hug:
Your seller *may* not have made it to the PO on Friday - so she would have to wait until today due to the holiday - or she may have posted your doll already but she may have been away for the holiday and possibly had no internet access etc. I'd leave it a few more days or maybe until the end of the week and then send another message (unless she responds in the meantime)
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I agree with everyone else to not worry just yet. She may have shipped it already through the PO and just hasn't had a chance to message you yet. I think a lot of new users don't get the concept that you can print your postage right through eBay and that the tracking number will automatically be uploaded for you. Also that even though her funds are being held they will release the shipping costs. Thus taking it to the PO. Just a thought.
I am sure she will want to get it out to you as soon as possible though since she does not have access to the funds. Let's hope so anyways! Keep us updated and congrats on your new dolly!
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Well, I just got the following message:
"Due to some unfortunate events, Elsa has been damaged ): I will be refunding you the money on the 17th (when I receive your money in my PayPal). I apologize with all my heart for this!"
Do I really have to wait until she gets the money to get a refund? Not sure I like the idea of it sitting around for so long...
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No. She should be able to reverse the transaction before that. Open a claim, say it's just so you can get the reversal quicker and not to cause offense. If she accepts the claim the transaction will be reversed.
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Really? OK that's just not right. I would open a case ASAP as xeevee mentioned to do.
If she is a new seller, as previously mentioned the funds will NOT be released until she provides a valid tracking number anyways. Which she has not, so that is a lie that they will be released on the 17th. That is a fact :)
Honestly I would proceed with opening a case for "item not received". Normally I would say wait a few days/week for confirmation but she flat out said that mysteriously the doll has been damaged. I find this scenario hard to believe.
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Sounds like your seller changed her mind and decided to keep the doll. That's unacceptable. Asking you to wait 15 days for a refund is also unacceptable. I would definitely file a claim through PayPal and then leave negative feedback.
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I'd messaged her earlier asking about the damage, but I think you guys are right :huh: It sounds fishy, so I just opened a claim with the hopes that she'll agree to it quickly. sigh. Back to the doll hunt!
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UGH! why does this give me deja vu?! I am absolutely furious for you hun! This seller is messing you about. Likely the person decided they will be able to get more for the doll at a later time (ie: xmas rush) and has had second thoughts so put off shipping and come up with an excuse not to send your doll :mad:
(same case scenario as my first seller of this doll - kept my money for a month then backed out of the sale on ebay with an excuse..then was stupid enough to relist the doll(s) for a crazy higher price right after she refunded and told me she didnt have them and couldnt send to me)
Back to your own situation Moss, if it was real why did she not tell you right away, or why did she not ship right away and left it so it got "damaged", why is she holding your money, why did she not provide photo evidence of the damaged doll as "I cant send it because its damaged now" is one of the oldest and most pathetic excuses in the book - yes it happens occasionally to be true (rarely though!) but then you need to be shown pics at least .
You were right to open a case right away after that message. Dont let this person drag things out and keep your money - what she has done is not acceptable.
BTW it wouldnt happen to be a UK seller would it? :huh: :what:
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UGH! why does this give me deja vu?! I am absolutely furious for you hun! This seller is messing you about. Likely the person decided they will be able to get more for the doll at a later time (ie: xmas rush) and has had second thoughts so put off shipping and come up with an excuse not to send your doll :mad:
(same case scenario as my first seller of this doll - kept my money for a month then backed out of the sale on ebay with an excuse..then was stupid enough to relist the doll(s) for a crazy higher price right after she refunded and told me she didnt have them and couldnt send to me)
Back to your own situation Moss, if it was real why did she not tell you right away, or why did she not ship right away and left it so it got "damaged", why is she holding your money, why did she not provide photo evidence of the damaged doll as "I cant send it because its damaged now" is one of the oldest and most pathetic excuses in the book - yes it happens occasionally to be true (rarely though!) but then you need to be shown pics at least .
You were right to open a case right away after that message. Dont let this person drag things out and keep your money - what she has done is not acceptable.
BTW it wouldnt happen to be a UK seller would it? :huh: :what:
To be honest, I'd probably respect someone more if they just outright said, "I've decided not to go through with the sale at this time, but let me help you get your money back." I wouldn't be happy with it, but at least they'd be honest. Too bad that'll never happen.
No, it was a US seller. And it's just so annoying because we had been in contact for a few days while she waited for the listing to end so she could list it for me at the agreed price. Like if you were having second thoughts, why go through all the trouble? And of course now I'm not hearing from her at all.
Not sure if anyone would know, but if you pay with a credit card through PayPal, can you cancel the charge through the credit card company? My mom doesn't like me using my debit card on larger purchases, in case something like this happens and the money is already gone. So we were wondering if the PayPal dispute starts taking too long, if we could just call the credit card company and dispute it that way. It wouldn't bother me so much if it wasn't such an expensive purchase! And I'm afraid to try for another doll until this mess gets sorted out.
Oh, and would it be acceptable to leave the seller a negative feedback for this?
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You can dispute with your credit card company if Paypal are unable/unwilling to get your money back for you :)
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Okay, I just heard back from the seller through ebay:
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I suppose I'm not sure what to do now? "
Uh... I've never handled a paypal dispute from either side, so how do I walk her through it?
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You shouldn't have to walk your seller through a dispute :)
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Well, I guess she figured it out, because I got a refund through PayPal this morning. Two questions left for you all, though, and then I'll stop, promise!
1) On eBay it now lists the doll under "Unpaid Items." Do I have to do anything to cancel the order, or will I now have to go through a non-paying bidder thing?
2) Should/ can I leave her negative feedback for this?
Thanks so much, everyone!
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I thought you opened a case on this seller ? if thats so then since there was a claim and the seller responded by giving a refund then the case would automatically close and you shouldnt have to do anything else about the item :awake: . You arent a non paying bidder. You paid and the seller messed you about and in the end responded to the case by refunding.
You can however still leave honest feedback for the transaction ( either negative or neutral - whatever you think fits this best)- honest feedback is important since the seller is likely to do the same thing on others.
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Yeah, the case was resolved, but on my eBay account, the doll is still listed under the "Unpaid Items" section. Should I just leave it alone, then?
EDIT: Called eBay and they archived the purchase. I'm all set!
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:bigups: