The MLP Arena
Creativity => Customs => Topic started by: Loa on April 28, 2012, 02:42:59 PM
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Hi Everyone,
I hate to have to post this publically, but after a series of events I have been forced to do so.
Recently, the Arena banned the members Mana-Maiden and Lucky4leafclover.
OMG! Why?!
Essentially a dramatic interlude occured away from the Arena, which exploded into the Arena's customs community.
After a series of PM's Lucky4leafclover requested for her own benefit to have her membership revoked.
We agreed.
This affected many members of our moderator team, and our community, to the point where some became ill and were receiving phone calls at home.
But why Mana?!
After we had finaly put this dramatic series of events to bed, and everything had calmed down, Mana decided to bring this up again.
She did so in an off site post which also involved a personal tragedy, and we initially decided to ignore this post, due to the circumstances.
However, Mana decided that we were holding a conspiracy (I hate that word!) and posted publicly that she was going to get mods 'fired' and was contacting Facebook for infomation so she could get these people 'fired'.
I and other Admin attempted to contact Mana regarding this, and I did not personally get a reply.
Unfortunately, this was the final straw regarding the Arena's relationship with Mana.
Mana created additional work for us by complaining about people stalking and harrassing her, within and without the Arena.
99% of the time this was simply not the case. She was unpleasant to people she decided were 'against' her, and more often than not we had a team of Mods having to calm down threads she created dramatics in, or was just nasty in.
People complained about her attitude, her cruelty and her professionalism, and I made the decision that enough was enough.
We are all unpaid volunteers, and when we are having to dedicate precious time to one member instead of benefitting the entire community it just is not fair.
But what does this mean for me?!
Whenever we have to make a harsh decision like this I get deluged by members asking if they are going to get banned too.
Banning a long time member is a very hard decision, and one not made easily by our team.
We don't ban willy-nilly and without cause.
I've been told the truth by Mana & Lucky! You guys are giant ugly meanies!
There are always two sides to every story. This is ours.
We could of course back it up by the hundreds of threads and comments in the mods forum about this, with chat transcripts, emails and PMs, but honestly, its too much hard work for everyone.
Who can I talk to about this?
If you are inclined to talk to someone about this, please PM myself or another Admin.
Thanks for reading!
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Thank for the info Loa!
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Thank you for this public summary - I think it's good to post in situations like this to clear up any rumors and mumblings going around.
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Thank you for this public summary - I think it's good to post in situations like this to clear up any rumors and mumblings going around.
Agreed.
Also, my love goes out to all the Mods who have been dealing with this situation. Its just not a nice thing for anyone to deal with :hug:
~Princess Of Darkness~
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This whole ordeal has been a nightmare. Thanks to all the mods that were able to find a solution to end it. And thank you for protecting us from excess drama. It is always sad when disagreements have to come to this.
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Yikes! Glad the whole ordeal was sorted out ^^;
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Oh man! No one should have to deal with that. ESPECIALLY volunteers and on a site about ponies! I am so sorry. I wish I could send you all to a spa.
Auf, you made me laugh so hard with the badger comment. :lmao:
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*Warm-strenght-hugs for Admin-team* You are doing a great job, if a newcommer is alloud to say so. =)
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Aw no! Drama! D: :hug: for the admins... So sorry to hear that it's affected you guys so badly. :C Sending lots of good thoughts your way. Through the modem. :lovey: Hope you all feel much better, and soon.
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I had no idea this was going on, I'm so sorry everyone has had to deal with this. Thank you mods for sorting this, it can't have been easy. xxx
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:hug: That can't have been pleasant :( :hug: Thankyou for summarizing for everyone :) And you guys do a great job!
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I had no idea this was going on. Never seen the drama topics. But I am glad things were solved! I hope everyone is ok now. Thus comunitie is supposed to be a safe and fun place. Thank you to the mods who are keeping it that way ^.^
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So. basically there was alot of bashing going on? Sorry, editing my last comment since it was done in a panic :blush: >_<
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Wow I'm shocked. I never spoke to those girls personally, but its nice to know you guys have kept everything hidden because I personally havent seen any of the bad drama filled topics.
I know its a hard decision but something is going on with those two and its best for the group theyve been shown out.
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The reason most people never saw anything was because the incidents took place off of the arena and were in no way affiliated with the arena. The members in question decided to bring it to the attention of the arena mods, creating a lot of work and hassel for our wonderful staff even though it was not an arena matter.
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Warm pony hugs to the admins who had to be the cooler heads that prevailed.
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<<Hugs to the Mods>> It's a rough situation. Hopefully, everything will start to calm down finally. Glad Loa summarized it all.
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hugs to all the mods you do a fantastic job :grouphug:
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:grouphug: to all the amazing, funny, and kind members that make everything worth it! Thank you all for being such a supportive group!
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Thanks for keeping the arena a fun place to visit. Drama not wanted - now or ever!
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:hug: Hugs to the mods and everyone else. This whole thing has been a big headache, but I'm glad you posted to help clear up any rumors floating around. I hope everything can settle down now.
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As someone that had to deal with insane conspiratorial drama from one of the aforementioned members, cheers to the Arena staff. I can't even imagine the headaches such behavior must have created for you guys.
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I'm really shocked...just shocked.
I can only imagine what you wonderfully fantastic mods went through dealing with this. You all deserve major hugs, cupcakes and a bottle or three of wine.
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Well I don't really know what happened,but from the sounds of things the mods had to deal with some serious B.S. drama and even though I didn't see what happened, I just wanted to say thanks to the mods for keeping a eye out on this site and making it a very pleasant place to come to. That also goes out to a lot of the members here as well, you all are so welcoming,nice and fun. Sometimes I still can't get over what a great place this is. Keep up the great work mods you are very much appreciated :)
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Thank you for letting us know! :(
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Thank you for letting us know. I'm sure a lot of members understand this. I kind of knew about one but not the other. I saw the signs but in any case this info has been useful
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I'm glad I was not here for the entire fiasco because if I were, that would have sent me into a panic attack. I believe you made the right choice to ban both Mana and Lucky. We love you and the fact that you were all hurt, makes me mad.
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Holy ***p! :shocked: It's aweful to read about!
I had no idea this was going on. Never seen the drama topics and I guess that's thanks to you "cleaning" it up.
Thank you for doing a great job keeping the arena friendly and awesome <3
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You all deserve major hugs, cupcakes and a bottle or three of wine.
We will happily take of offerings cupcakes and wine ;) Cheers! :hug:
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We have each other and this is a very tight-knit group. So when people are hurt...that hurts me... :( :cry:
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You all deserve major hugs, cupcakes and a bottle or three of wine.
We will happily take of offerings cupcakes and wine ;) Cheers! :hug:
:tort:
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We will happily take of offerings cupcakes and wine ;) Cheers! :hug:
:lmao:
:beerchug: :pizza: :wine: :heart: :flash:
Hey! That dude sneaks into my posts all the time! Perv!
XD
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Aww, I always miss the excitement around here!
...Seriously though, it's always awesome seeing the mods crack down in nonsense like this!
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Wait, this is a My Little Pony Arena right? Life for all of us in individual ways can be tough, it's just sad that realities sometimes cross over into other peoples happy places :(