Thank you. I had no idea how to handle it, and wasn't sure what to do, if anything. I appreciate the advice, and will pass it off to ebay for them to handle or not at their discretion.
I'm a little sad I missed out on her, but I think my suspicions and salty feelings regarding the whole situation would have put a grey, rainy cloud over her plot of shelf space had I continued to bid. I'm willing to pay well, but I have never felt uncomfortable over the legitimacy of a bid before. Then again, it was the first time I thought, Hey! I can check out my competition!
I guess I'll be doing that more often from now on.