Ok I did totally assume "everybody" has paypal or googlepay or applepay
oops
So I went and bid/won on German Ebay. The seller is fine to ship to US (thankfully!) using DHL, I am just stuck on the bank transfer part. Seller does not have paypal.
I am hoping for help so I can pay you (in Germany) the euros using Paypal and then you can do the bank to bank transfer to pay the ebay seller.
OR I will need help to buy/ship to you in Germany and then please forward to me in the US
and boy did I learn my lesson about reading fine print german ebay
thanks in advance