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TCB => Trader & Shipping Support => Topic started by: achab1984 on May 07, 2015, 01:47:22 PM
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Has anyone sold to this person on ebay? She has bought three of my ponies that I have for sale and also made an offer on another that I have not accepted yet. I told her to wait to send payment so I could send her a invoice with combined shipping and she did not listen to me and bought and paid for each one separate. She also wanted me to leave her positive feedback right away. I told her that I wait till she gets the item and give me feedback before I leave her feedback. I went and looked threw her feedback and she has left nothing but negative stuff to everyone she has bought from.
I don't know what to do right now? I really don't know if I want to send her the ponies that she has paid for and give her money back. But then I will be left with the selling fees and I don't want that :(
What do to!!???????
UPDATE: I canceled all the ponies she bought from me and put her on my block list. Do not sell to her. She is very pushy and looks like she will leave you negative feedback!
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I just looked that member up on ebay and I would cancel the transactions and block her. I would actually contact ebay and report her. Who buys that much stuff and literally has left 22/25 bad experiences one right after another, resulting in that many negative feedbacks? That's just my opinion. Once the sales are canceled she can't leave any type of feedback for you, so she can't hold that over your head.
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I just did cancle the sale on all of them. Says that pay pal is going to refund the money back to the buyer. Do you know if I will get my seller fees back? That is almost $5.00!
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You should get them back within the next day or so.
I recently had to cancel a sale due to an error on my part, I sent them the refund automatically along with a very polite message explaining the reason for the cancellation and by the following day I had been credited my seller fees.
I just added that buyer to my blocked list. That feedback record is terrifying, I've never come across an ebay member with such a track record for leaving negatives before.
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I did get three message about getting my fees back. Do you think that its ok to put them back up for sale? Yes block list its going! I know that is why I did not want to go threw with it. They were not happy when I told them that I was going to wait.
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Once the transactions have been canceled, I believe that there is no reason why you can't relist them for sale :)
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Ok I also just reported them to ebay. I hope they do something about this. They would not listen to me in the messages that I sent them. Kept telling me know they were going to buy them and that I was going to give discounts this way and not the way I was going to do it. Thank you for talking with me about this!
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What a terrible experience. Definitely not a buyer I would want to deal with. Hopefully ebay can see that what that buyer is doing is wrong and they do something about it. I'm glad I was able to help :hug:
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Thank you again! I just added her to my block list.
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This buyer is a bully and it looks like they've been getting away with it for a long time! I just went through their feedback left for others! Terrible! They've only left positive feedback for one seller ever! So glad you reported them and alerted us about their poor buying habits!
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Boy I really made her mad. These are the messages that was just sent to me on ebay by this seller.
Left at 4:46pm
You cancelled some of the orders I had already bought and paid full price for! And you wonder if I will leave you a negative? Why shouldn't I? You are certainly NOT out of stock, so you cancelled because you do not want to sell to me. I have an issue with a seller demanding feedback FIRST. That is feedback blackmail. If you would have just left me a positive feedback first as I requested, I would have returned positive feedback to you when I got my items in. You have certainly made me MAD. If you don't want negative feedback, then honor the items I bought from you. I paid full price for them.
Left at 4:50pm
So you blocked me from buying from you! I would have never given you negative feedback if you hadn't caused it yourself! Then you've lied and said you were out of the items I already bought. YOU are the cause of me getting upset, and it was for a stupid reason. All because you did not want to leave feedback first.
Left at 5:04pm
So you lied. You cancelled my sales saying that you were out of stock, but the items are still listed for sale. All of this because you did not want to leave feedback first. Wow. I never had any intention of leaving you a negative. Honest. But I do strongly believe a seller should leave the feedback first. If you would have done that, there would have been NO problem at all.
I had to laugh when I was reading them all. I did nothing wrong and followed all the seller rules that ebay has. I did not say anything rude or was not pushy at all. Just making sure that I did not get negative feedback that I did not earn.
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Mentioning feedback at all in a message can be considered feedback extortion and you can have it removed by eBay. Be sure to save all your messages and call eBay if she keeps harassing you. I would not respond to her.
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That's completely unreal. I can't believe that she's getting so bent out of shape over this. Like bluerose said, I wouldn't respond, just hold on to the messages. She's violating all sorts of ebay policies (feedback extortion and harassment), it's disgusting really. I could just imagine the headache that would've come from this had you allowed all of the sales to go through.
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Holy NEGATIVE feedback!!!! This chick is batcrap crazy! There is no way that she had that many bad transactions on eBay. I am so glad you were able to cancel the transaction and not deal with her.
*sigh* eBay lately just seems to support buyer shoplifting. So many ways that the buyer can hold the seller to ransom to get their item for free...
Mentioning feedback at all in a message can be considered feedback extortion and you can have it removed by eBay. Be sure to save all your messages and call eBay if she keeps harassing you. I would not respond to her.
YES!
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Man what a loony. Sounds like you've done the right thing. I hope she ends up being banned from ebay or something though.
I wonder if she's the kind of person who automatically asks to see the manager at a store because the clerk looked at her funny.
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Man what a loony. Sounds like you've done the right thing. I hope she ends up being banned from ebay or something though.
I wonder if she's the kind of person who automatically asks to see the manager at a store because the clerk looked at her funny.
I was thinking along those lines, too. But more like it sounds like she'd be like one of those people who would steal from a retail store and then try to return it without the receipt and then complain to the manager when the associate wouldn't allow the return.
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Ugh what a nutter... glad you were able to cancel!
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she only left positive feedback for one seller...she is a nut bag. All those red circles! :shocked:
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LOL I love to see what you all think. I sure am happy that I went with my gut feeling and also asked on here. I know I have not sent her any message back (fuel to the fire) and hope she does not keep sending me these. So far those are the only ones.
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What a freak! :lol: Who in their right mind would want to sell to someone like that? Her account should be terminated!
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I did report her with all the ponies that she did buy from me. I wrote when happened in all of them.
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Whoa!! Yep, she would be a manager's nightmare.
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Well I just got another message from her.
8:09pm
As you can tell by my username, I collect My Little Ponies. We could have had a good thing going IF you would just left me positive feedback when I asked you to. That was all it would have taken, and I would have had NO reason to leave you a negative. But your seller policy is stupid. You just want to guarantee that you will get feedback before you are willing to give it. As a buyer, I do not have to do anything but pay in order to earn a positive feedback. I do NOT have to be pleased with my purchase. That is so stupid and lost you some honest sales. I would have been a good customer. You lost out because of your dumb feedback policy!!!
- love2collectponies
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Definitely dodged a bullet on that one.
I would be considering reporting her for harassment, but that's just me. Doesn't she realize that you are able to see the history of feedback that she's left for previous sellers? It's not like she's left 1 or 2 negatives, she's left 22 :shocked: Her messages are incredibly rude as well. I wouldn't want to deal with her online or face to face.
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Definitely added to my block list! Holy freakin wow!
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I am very happy that I have been able to help others do they don't have to deal with this!
Yes I am going to do that tomorrow when I get home from work if she sends me anymore. I sure am not letting them get to me. Just upset that they did not get there way. And when someone is guilty of something they will keep bring it up over and over. Yes I sure did dodge a big bullet!
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Wow, crazy. Im glad you dodget that one.
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Wow, crazy. Im glad you dodget that one.
Yes thank you :)
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:nuts: Yeesh! I'm glad you went with your gut and shut that down, here's hoping she stops harassing you or eBay deals with her.
If only eBay would allow sellers to leave honest negative feedback for buyers. I wasn't using it when they did, it must have been a very different/better place to sell back then.
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I would point her to Ebay's feedback policy that it states it is OPTIONAL then ignore her. If she negs you report for feedback extortion. Good luck.
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:nuts: Yeesh! I'm glad you went with your gut and shut that down, here's hoping she stops harassing you or eBay deals with her.
If only eBay would allow sellers to leave honest negative feedback for buyers. I wasn't using it when they did, it must have been a very different/better place to sell back then.
Me to!!
I sent a message to two of the last two sellers that she left feedback for. Both of them said they reported her and also called pay pal and ebay about it and nothing has been done! Ebay is horrible for sellers and a buyers world! I have not gotten anymore messages from her yet.
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Holey Moley! I'm adding her to my block list too...that's crazy bizarro behavior. Well spotted, glad this was resolved before you got slammed. :(
Um...can someone refresh my memory? How do you block a buyer?
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:whoa: Wow that's one crazy person!! you were right to cancel the sales and block the person. Also to report her for feedback extortion and for harassment too! it's usually better to do this over the phone if you can as well as online - you get quicker results. I really cant believe ebay would let someone like this keep their account :facepalm: :throw: :(
for anyone needing to block this person but cant remember how:
Go to the help and contact tab and run a search "how to block buyers" "blocking buyers or bidders" or similar , and you'll find instructions and a link to your own blocked buyer page ;)
heres a quote from ebay (mines ebay UK so the wording may be slightly different- ETA looks the same - I just tried it on ebay .com too)
Block bidders or buyers from your listings
If you don't wish to sell to certain eBay members, you can put them on your blocked list. Members on that list will be unable to bid on any of your listings until you remove them from the list. You can block up to 5000 User IDs.
• To block a member, enter the member's user ID and click Submit. Separate user IDs with a comma.
• To remove members from the blocked list, select the members' user ids and delete them. Remember to inform the members so that they can resume bidding on your items.
• You can restore a past blocked bidder/buyer list by clicking on Restore list. You can only restore the status of blocked bidder/buyer lists after 3 months. Remember to inform the members so that they can resume bidding on your items.
(after these instructions you'll see your blocked buyer/bidder list underneath and you can add the persons details and click submit to update it
hope that helps a bit :)
Thanks for the heads up - I'm currently adding this person to my blocked buyer list too! I'm sorry you had to deal with her though! :hug:
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I am happy that I have been able to help you all out! :) I have not gotten anymore messages thank the lord! :)
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:whew:
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I just looked today and I see that she has five new feedbacks on page, I sure hope these people don't get horrible feedback from her! :(
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Wow what a nutter! She is going to be surprised wine she goes to buy ponies in the future and is blocked from bidding on many auctions.
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I know! :)
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Wow, what a crazy scary person!
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Holy moly...
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:whoa: Wow that's one crazy person!! you were right to cancel the sales and block the person. Also to report her for feedback extortion and for harassment too! it's usually better to do this over the phone if you can as well as online - you get quicker results. I really cant believe ebay would let someone like this keep their account :facepalm: :throw: :(
for anyone needing to block this person but cant remember how:
Go to the help and contact tab and run a search "how to block buyers" "blocking buyers or bidders" or similar , and you'll find instructions and a link to your own blocked buyer page ;)
heres a quote from ebay (mines ebay UK so the wording may be slightly different- ETA looks the same - I just tried it on ebay .com too)
Block bidders or buyers from your listings
If you don't wish to sell to certain eBay members, you can put them on your blocked list. Members on that list will be unable to bid on any of your listings until you remove them from the list. You can block up to 5000 User IDs.
• To block a member, enter the member's user ID and click Submit. Separate user IDs with a comma.
• To remove members from the blocked list, select the members' user ids and delete them. Remember to inform the members so that they can resume bidding on your items.
• You can restore a past blocked bidder/buyer list by clicking on Restore list. You can only restore the status of blocked bidder/buyer lists after 3 months. Remember to inform the members so that they can resume bidding on your items.
(after these instructions you'll see your blocked buyer/bidder list underneath and you can add the persons details and click submit to update it
hope that helps a bit :)
Thanks for the heads up - I'm currently adding this person to my blocked buyer list too! I'm sorry you had to deal with her though! :hug:
Thanks for this! Remarkably difficult to find! I sell ponies maybe once every year but I am still adding this nutter to my blocked (it must have been easier to find at some point)
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I have not gotten any more message from her, but I see that she must still be bidding on things. Cause she is getting more feedback. But she has not felt any more yet.
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I'm glad she's left you alone now :hug: - and she wont be bidding on any of my things cos I blocked her
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I just looked at her feedback and she has left 11 more negatives!
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I just looked at her feedback and she has left 11 more negatives!
jeez she's left 2 pages worth of negative feedback for people O.o :nuts:
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I just looked at her feedback and she has left 11 more negatives!
jeez she's left 2 pages worth of negative feedback for people O.o :nuts:
I know and its only going to get bigger. I looked at the one seller that she left a lot of bad feedback about the ponies. And the ponies they have listed looked to be in beautiful condition.
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I just looked at her feedback and she has left 11 more negatives!
jeez she's left 2 pages worth of negative feedback for people O.o :nuts:
I know and its only going to get bigger. I looked at the one seller that she left a lot of bad feedback about the ponies. And the ponies they have listed looked to be in beautiful condition.
I really hope she's not one of those people that damages thing they bought off ebay (ponies in this case) and then returns them :cry:
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This has got my head reeling :blink: It makes me have a weird feeling like this perhaps is another reseller and wants to damage whomevers feedback that she can. I could be totally wrong but jeesh..it's a bit to much.
Hey avena do you happen to have her first and last name that you can PM me with?
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I wondered about that, cause they were all NIB ponies that she wanted to buy from me. One of the feedbacks made a comment about the value is no longer there with them be damaged in there box. Sad she is still doing this! :(
I just got a message from another seller that she left feedback for the other day. This is part of what they said. "She is trying to extort refunds and keep all the items."
Post Merge: May 18, 2015, 01:14:29 PM
This has got my head reeling :blink: It makes me have a weird feeling like this perhaps is another reseller and wants to damage whomevers feedback that she can. I could be totally wrong but jeesh..it's a bit to much.
Hey avena do you happen to have her first and last name that you can PM me with?
yes I do have her name :) I just sent you a pm ponylady.
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I just got a message from another seller that she left feedback for the other day. This is part of what they said. "She is trying to extort refunds and keep all the items."
That's exactly what I was thinking she was doing. She's hoping that with leaving the bad feedback, she's going to get at least a partial refund offer from the sellers.
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I just got a message from another seller that she left feedback for the other day. This is part of what they said. "She is trying to extort refunds and keep all the items."
That's exactly what I was thinking she was doing. She's hoping that with leaving the bad feedback, she's going to get at least a partial refund offer from the sellers.
Makes me sick! Boy she was mad that she did not get her way with me. Sounded like a broken record in her messages. And she kept saying that she was not going to leave negative feedback either. Well lady it shows right there in front of me you sure like to. How do these people get away with this?
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I cannot thank you *enough* for giving us this user ID. I have a ton of MIB G3's listed myself right now and it's like they're cursed. Buyers backing out of sales left and right. I'd hate to have this wack-a-doo potentially added to the mix. I sure hope eBay does something about her!
Silverdawn
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Wow she hit the latest hard with all those negs. Looks like they accepted a best offer on all the items she bought so she paid lower than the list price. That girl is evil. Has anyone contacted eBay?
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how do you block a specific buyer?
i know how to adjust the requirements for buyer etc, but not how to put in a name and say, don't let them buy from me!
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I'm not even sure how to get there anymore... I have it bookmarked lol
http://offer.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?bidderblocklogin&hc=1&hm=uk%600d72f%2Bd37c (http://offer.ebay.com/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?bidderblocklogin&hc=1&hm=uk%600d72f%2Bd37c)
Hopefully that URL will work for you too!
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it's in account/site preferences/buyer requirements/edit/blocked bidder list on mine - hope that helps!
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I posted how to block buyers on this thread but its few pages back now I think ...
This buyer needs to be removed from ebay :stressed: . If she hasn't been reported yet she certainly needs to be! Achab , have you asked the other sellers you talked to about her giving them bad feedback if they reported her? :what:
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okay this chick's crazy :haha:
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I posted how to block buyers on this thread but its few pages back now I think ...
This buyer needs to be removed from ebay :stressed: . If she hasn't been reported yet she certainly needs to be! Achab , have you asked the other sellers you talked to about her giving them bad feedback if they reported her? :what:
I did not ask them about that, but what I think is they leave her feedback as soon as the buyer sends payment. I don't think you can change your feedback after you do that? She has been reported by many of the sellers that I have talked to. Some of them have called the fraud department in person to. Seems that ebay just really does not care, cause nothing has been done about it yet. I do know that one of the sellers said that her living is to sell on ebay and the situation that this buyer caused her has made her gotten a lawyer. Must be pretty bad for that person. Pretty sad about it. I have one of the listing saved so I can see what her account shows and I also have all her messages she sent me saved. I don't like to be a mean person but she needs to be stopped!
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I just read through this thread. Man, I got a laugh at that girl's craziness! I'm gonna block her from buying from me too. I don't need that kind of madness. Thanks for the warning. :)
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Holy cow. Thanks for warning us, this crazy is going on my blocked list for sure.
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If it were me, I might consider filing a police report- she is clearly guilty of extortion.
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Edit: Figured it out. Thank heaven for 'the Google.' Ha!