i just went ahead and left a negative feedback, i hate to be a meanie, but i'm out my money.
:sad: what a horrible situation. I hope that she at least responds to your Paypal dispute megt19Yep, she's seen it alright...... she has finally responded, shall I quote? "Dude, I JUST got home. I will be in touch tonight as soon as I get settled in."
I hope all this gets worked out soon, I feel so bad for you guys who have been left hanging.
I was meant to buy something from her awhile ago, she said she'd hold it for the weekend while I asked my friend if I could use her paypal and them when I told her on the Monday that I had the money and could pay her as soon as, she'd sold the pony to someone else >.< Without telling me. Reading these threads though, I'm quite glad I didn't buy from her now
.....she's abusing alcohol and meds while a child is in her care?
I can't even express how sad I am to hear what ShineyKitsune is dealing with in RL. I also don't believe that she intentionally deceiving people because it takes a really low person to lie about addiction and depression - they're also not something that those suffering want to admit to.
Don't get me wrong - I'm not expecting you guys to forgive and forget about this! No way. The fact is, a whole thread of anger isn't going to make her want to come back and face this but a tiny bit of understanding might...
Yes, it was very wrong to get involved in so many transactions knowing that she has such serious issues to deal with in life and yes the negative feedback is warranted.
I don't know, I guess I just wanted to put some kindness out there ^.^
*sigh* I'm so sad to hear that this is still going on. I received my package a few weeks ago but I really feel for you guys still waiting :heart:
Although I completely understand the anger about her mishandling of so many transactions, it's still really sad to see so much judgement and negativity directed at one person :( especially on a forum that is generally so kind...
I can't even express how sad I am to hear what ShineyKitsune is dealing with in RL. I also don't believe that she intentionally deceiving people because it takes a really low person to lie about addiction and depression - they're also not something that those suffering want to admit to.
Don't get me wrong - I'm not expecting you guys to forgive and forget about this! No way. The fact is, a whole thread of anger isn't going to make her want to come back and face this but a tiny bit of understanding might...
Yes, it was very wrong to get involved in so many transactions knowing that she has such serious issues to deal with in life and yes the negative feedback is warranted.
I don't know, I guess I just wanted to put some kindness out there ^.^
Commence the throwing of fakies if you wish :P but I'm really hoping everything works out for those of you still waiting :hug: ... even if I do cop a few fakies to the head :lookround:
No, and it looks like she has not sent her end of the newbie custom swap either.
UPDATING....well if paypal can't get you the rest back, your bank probably could. I think it falls under a mild kind of fraud "paid for an item, item never received and seller dissappeared."
I received $17 back from Paypal.
I can not get the other $14 back because it was in November so Paypal can't chase that up.
I have not received any items from SK.
I have not heard from SK at all.
She will not reply to any form of contact from me.....
so I have decided to delete her as a 'friend' from my facebook, we are obviously no longer friends in a real sense so i don't need to see her random useless crap all over my FB wall everyday, it just makes me angry.... I would rather just forget all about it now, and be more careful about who I trust in the future.
well if paypal can't get you the rest back, your bank probably could. I think it falls under a mild kind of fraud "paid for an item, item never received and seller dissappeared."Really? I wasn't aware of that, do you know if it's a straight forward process? or a lot of mucking around? because at this point I am completely over it & it is only $14 after all.... Paypal only gives 45 days to lodge the claim, which I didn't do at the time because (silly me) I still believed that she would send the items.... She's not exactly 'disappeared' either, she's still very much alive & 'well' updating FB, and I do have her home address....
and her bf seems to be abusing the booze as well........she's abusing alcohol and meds while a child is in her care?That's my biggest concern. Her poor kid. ):
usually i think, it is a bit of mucking around but they shouldn't charge you for it. just tell them what happened, it's like those nigerian princes saying "do this, recieve that' and they can get your money back for you from those cases. So I don't see the harm in asking.well if paypal can't get you the rest back, your bank probably could. I think it falls under a mild kind of fraud "paid for an item, item never received and seller dissappeared."Really? I wasn't aware of that, do you know if it's a straight forward process? or a lot of mucking around? because at this point I am completely over it & it is only $14 after all.... Paypal only gives 45 days to lodge the claim, which I didn't do at the time because (silly me) I still believed that she would send the items.... She's not exactly 'disappeared' either, she's still very much alive & 'well' updating FB, and I do have her home address....