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Off Topic / Happy Valentines Day

« on: February 14, 2021, 07:53:56 AM »

Happy Valentines Day!!!

How Are You Celebrating?

Personally, I'm staying home. I made myself a delicious breakfast. Perhaps I will dress up later, maybe or maybe not.

Have you done anything yet? Does anyone have surprise plans for you?

What was your best Valentines Day? And why?

Edit: I don't see any Valentines Day Thread but I'm still being moderated (for being intrigued by Bronies) and wondering when that may end (which would be a good Valentines day present)... [That's not why and if you wish to discuss please PM the Mods, not bring it up in a post - Loa]

*Sending Imaginary Roses To Each Person Who Reads This And Imaginary Chocolates For Any Replies*

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Off Topic / Re: Thinking of getting a cat, need advice

« on: February 12, 2021, 09:38:35 PM »

My advice is Go For It! Get A Cat, Window Perch And Cat Condo.

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Off Topic / Re: What are you currently reading?

« on: February 06, 2021, 10:15:59 PM »

Last thing I read was a magazine out of boredom

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Off Topic / Re: Happy New Year!

« on: January 10, 2021, 01:12:02 PM »

Happy New Year

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Off Topic / Re: What's your favorite pizza?

« on: January 07, 2021, 03:20:28 PM »

Brick Oven Pizza

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Off Topic / People Pleaser? Avoiding Conflict? Multiple 2nd Chances?

« on: January 07, 2021, 12:26:22 PM »

I'm realizing that I'm definitely a people pleaser because I care more about my friends and their comfort over my own. I feel the need to avoid conflict.

I will state my boundaries, friends agree to my boundaries but violate my boundaries, then I will get rid of the boundaries I created.

For example, seperate checks at restaurants which my friends agree too then order an obsence amount of food then claim they forgot their wallet.

Other times, if the waiter can't give seperate checks, I just order water but then my friend will order for me, eat half of the food meant for me then not want to contribute anything at all.

Basically, they insisted on going out to a specific restaurant, just didn't want to eat alone, wanted more food (hence eating the food they ordered for me) and refuse to contribute to the bill - huge sense of ENTITLEMENT!!!

If I try to remind them of my Finances and Boundaries, they'll flip out so I just pay for whatever to avoid them creating a scene.

I hear apologize so I give multiple chances then nothing changes.

I don't want money to come between friendships, because I value my friends but then wind up having to pay for friends who skip out on their restaurant bills.