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Not naming names because this really isn't that important, but it's one of those things that's been kind of sitting unresolved for a good long time now and I wanted some advice on the situation.Long story short, I contracted with a trader who some people here may know, we live in the same state and go to a lot of the same shows (pre-covid). I'd given them good business in the past, and so I hired them to do a little restoration on two G1s and a G3, in pretty bait condition (they were dollar store rescues like so much of my collection). Because of the condition I wasn't expecting much, but re-hairing was definitely on the list. I gave them money, their prices were reasonable, and we loosely agreed it'd be done in a few months. That was back in 2019... in the before times.I did reach out to them in 2020, and they showed pictures of the ponies, in a disassembled state. Of course the state of the world precluded any kind of real resolution, but I was glad for the response... it was hard to get in touch with this person as they weren't especially active on social media, or at least the social media I'm on (Facebook & Discord). Admittedly, I'm not super active either. I also reached out in late 2021, thinking perhaps we'd be able to meet up at a winter con that was happening then, and work something out. I even offered to send someone with money to pick up the ponies, in whatever state they were in, in case I could not come. I received no response, and decided not to go to the con for other reasons. I am going to be attending a con I know they'll be at this summer... what do you guys think I should do? Should I try talking with them in person and trying to work something out? If they still have the ponies, I'd be happy with them just being returned. I know logically at this point I should probably just give it up but I'm as stubborn as Applejack, and just as silly. It's also just messy unfinished business at this point, and I think it'd be good to settle it at some point given that we're likely to be at the same cons (as long as those cons run). Any advice from fellow collectors that have had to deal with this sort of thing before?
Quote from: Bluebook on May 26, 2022, 08:43:07 PMNot naming names because this really isn't that important, but it's one of those things that's been kind of sitting unresolved for a good long time now and I wanted some advice on the situation.Long story short, I contracted with a trader who some people here may know, we live in the same state and go to a lot of the same shows (pre-covid). I'd given them good business in the past, and so I hired them to do a little restoration on two G1s and a G3, in pretty bait condition (they were dollar store rescues like so much of my collection). Because of the condition I wasn't expecting much, but re-hairing was definitely on the list. I gave them money, their prices were reasonable, and we loosely agreed it'd be done in a few months. That was back in 2019... in the before times.I did reach out to them in 2020, and they showed pictures of the ponies, in a disassembled state. Of course the state of the world precluded any kind of real resolution, but I was glad for the response... it was hard to get in touch with this person as they weren't especially active on social media, or at least the social media I'm on (Facebook & Discord). Admittedly, I'm not super active either. I also reached out in late 2021, thinking perhaps we'd be able to meet up at a winter con that was happening then, and work something out. I even offered to send someone with money to pick up the ponies, in whatever state they were in, in case I could not come. I received no response, and decided not to go to the con for other reasons. I am going to be attending a con I know they'll be at this summer... what do you guys think I should do? Should I try talking with them in person and trying to work something out? If they still have the ponies, I'd be happy with them just being returned. I know logically at this point I should probably just give it up but I'm as stubborn as Applejack, and just as silly. It's also just messy unfinished business at this point, and I think it'd be good to settle it at some point given that we're likely to be at the same cons (as long as those cons run). Any advice from fellow collectors that have had to deal with this sort of thing before? i don't think its unreasonable of you to talk to them, 3 years is a LONG time to complete a commission and those ponies, bait and cheap or not, are your property
Quote from: caseysealia on May 26, 2022, 08:47:04 PMQuote from: Bluebook on May 26, 2022, 08:43:07 PMNot naming names because this really isn't that important, but it's one of those things that's been kind of sitting unresolved for a good long time now and I wanted some advice on the situation.Long story short, I contracted with a trader who some people here may know, we live in the same state and go to a lot of the same shows (pre-covid). I'd given them good business in the past, and so I hired them to do a little restoration on two G1s and a G3, in pretty bait condition (they were dollar store rescues like so much of my collection). Because of the condition I wasn't expecting much, but re-hairing was definitely on the list. I gave them money, their prices were reasonable, and we loosely agreed it'd be done in a few months. That was back in 2019... in the before times.I did reach out to them in 2020, and they showed pictures of the ponies, in a disassembled state. Of course the state of the world precluded any kind of real resolution, but I was glad for the response... it was hard to get in touch with this person as they weren't especially active on social media, or at least the social media I'm on (Facebook & Discord). Admittedly, I'm not super active either. I also reached out in late 2021, thinking perhaps we'd be able to meet up at a winter con that was happening then, and work something out. I even offered to send someone with money to pick up the ponies, in whatever state they were in, in case I could not come. I received no response, and decided not to go to the con for other reasons. I am going to be attending a con I know they'll be at this summer... what do you guys think I should do? Should I try talking with them in person and trying to work something out? If they still have the ponies, I'd be happy with them just being returned. I know logically at this point I should probably just give it up but I'm as stubborn as Applejack, and just as silly. It's also just messy unfinished business at this point, and I think it'd be good to settle it at some point given that we're likely to be at the same cons (as long as those cons run). Any advice from fellow collectors that have had to deal with this sort of thing before? i don't think its unreasonable of you to talk to them, 3 years is a LONG time to complete a commission and those ponies, bait and cheap or not, are your propertyYeah, if it weren't for the pandemic this all would probably have been straightened out eons ago. I think I sort of gave up for a while last winter, but I've been thinking about the con again (because, happily, a friend I haven't seen for a while reached out and i've been busy writing fanfic again) which brought it to mind. The delay in the commission was initially that, at least for one of the ponies, the new hair got purchased, accidentally tossed, and then reordered... I wonder if they just could not get the supplies anymore? It's mostly just crazy to think it's been three years since I've been to an in person con! I have tried reaching out again to them with the two social media accounts I have for them, to try and coordinate things.The even crazier thing is, I think I got those ponies in like December 2018? The G1s were the first I'd found in the wild.
I think you're being way too lenient; a pandemic can only be an excuse for so long. It's 3 ponies. I'm a busy mom with zero downtime for hobbies, and I still managed to rehair 3 ponies in the space of 3 years. Post offices are still up and running, and unless they are severely immunocompromised, and I'm assuming that they are not if they are attending cons, there is no excuse for not being able to drop your ponies in the mail, finished or not, and return your property. I'd try contacting them by whatever means you have of reaching them; just state that you'd like them returned, assembled or not, and if you don't get a response, you're well within your rights to ask them in person at the con about them, where they can't hide behind a screen or a pandemic. They probably won't have them on hand, but at least you'll know your message was delivered. If they then don't send them within a reasonable time frame, I would leave appropriate feedback to warn others not to do business with them.