Pixieponies where have you gone???

[blondee1982]

So I was just wondering if anyone has heard from pixieponies? I did a Holiday swap with her and it has been about 1 1/2 months since she would have received it and I have not heard anything after multiple messages sent. I am pretty disappointed about it because I really put a lot of thought in to that box Just wish she would at least let me know she got it I checked her profile and it said she has logged on the day after I had sent her the initial message when I received my box but she never opened my message....

[rosierjay]

she's in the custom swap i'm hosting.
i know that she recently moved, and that she was in and out of the hospital.
i haven't heard from her since jan16.
i've been contacting her through email.
i know she's in another swap, but i don't know if they've heard from her or not.

[blondee1982]

Oh no I sure hope she is ok I knew she was going to be moving but I was not aware that she had been ill, hopefully she is ok and checks in soon, I wonder if her other swaps have heard anything from her??

[ponylady]

Thanks for the update rosier!  If you talk to her let her know we are thinking of her.

[Ringlets]

I hope she is ok and that you'll be able to make contact soon. Sounds like real life is being a bit tough on her ATM  

[hathorcat]

It was the Newbie Holiday Swap I was looking for her on. Again to make sure she was happy with her box as I have never received confirmation that everything was ok. Unfortunately all pms have likewise gone unanswered.

[lovesbabysquirmy]

Any updates?   

[blondee1982]

No updates here

[rosierjay]

she updated her profile picture on facebook in late jan. and her husband hasn't posted anything dramatic. (lots of weird videos)

totally not cyber stalking, but i honestly thought that maybe she was sick enough that she had... um... passed. so i was worried. from what i can tell, that's not the case.
no idea where she went. not replying to any of my emails.
(only one every 3 to 5 days) so not quite harassment
are you still waiting to receive anything from her?

[TexasGal]

I'm concerned too, as I sent her items in rosier's swap. I would really just like to know it got there ok, just to ease my mind, but I may not hear anything.  =\

[blondee1982]

I received my package from her so I am grateful for that, was just wanting to hear she got hers and liked it...  I don't think I ever will get any confirmation or a thank you Definitely will think twice before doing a swap ever again

[rosierjay]

I received my package from her so I am grateful for that, was just wanting to hear she got hers and liked it...  I don't think I ever will get any confirmation or a thank you Definitely will think twice before doing a swap ever again

was it a private swap? those can be risky. but the regular swaps have host, and a group that will help replace boxes if someone goes missing.
that's what we're doing for the army swap.
if you ever want to do a private swap let me know.
think i'll need a little break after this one. it ended up turning into 4 swaps in one. plus 3 private swaps on the side and one that finished in early jan. pretty swapped out for a while. least till march *snicker*

but i do know the frustration of not hearing if it arrived, if they liked it or even a thank you. hope she does contact you soon.

[blondee1982]

Thank you  yes it was a private swap, I think she may have just gotten overwhelmed with all of her swaps going on at once and trying to move?? Not sure what happened but it was really sad it had to turn out that way though I am just left feeling like all the thought I put into it and money for that matter went to waste....oh well trying to just let it go maybe I will do another swap in the near future and thank you so much for offering!

Post Merge: February 14, 2014, 03:06:36 PM

It was the Newbie Holiday Swap I was looking for her on. Again to make sure she was happy with her box as I have never received confirmation that everything was ok. Unfortunately all pms have likewise gone unanswered.

Thanks for letting me know  It feels a little better knowing I wasn't the only one going through this, I am so sorry you were stiffed of a Thank you or reply as well

[Ligress]

Sadly maybe she didn't check in because she didnt know etiquette of lettering your partner know theygot your box?
Hopefully its just real life clogging her up and you will get a message one of these days thanking you?
 I am sad it makes you not want to do private swaps, theres some really great people who I'm sure would be great partners to swap with, I hope you won't give up on swaps!

[hathorcat]

I have never liked the excuse of perhaps someone didn't know it was expected to check in. Every swap you enter details feedback and brag information, every transaction seeks an equal courtesy; and anyone who claims that they didnt think it was expected of them I think is deceiving only themselves.