I want everyone to please remember that there are two sides to this. I know for a fact the two of them have exchanged large portions of money in the past, with out a hitch. This is a one time occurrence.  So there honestly is no reason to question the OP's morals at this time.  Should appropriate feedback be left, absolutely! But trying to black ball someone over an obvious financial situation, is a bit unfair in my opinion. As I said before this is not a $20 transaction  most of us do not even deal with this kind of money when dealing with ponies. That is why we need to learn from this, and that is when dealing with payment plans that it needs stated upfront that the initial deposit or a portion of it is non-refundable. I know a lot of customizers do this without any issues due to supplies and the starting of the project. So I think when one enters into a sales of this sort that it should start being implemented.

Anyways Ember herself has stated she is not naming and shaming. She was merely seeking advice how how to handle the situation.  I think due to some miscommunication the situation escalated quickly and a CC was opened without thinking it through all the way. While I do not think that part of it fair, what's done is done and it needs to be rectified to the best of the OP's ability at this point.

Oh I hope things will be ok 

Thanks Roogna  I know you most definitely probably do more orders in a month with them, than I have done in a year. So it's good to know that that the OP's mistake, most likely will be fixed before the order gets processed.

Tornado I have edited your thread title to add this members name.

If anyone is in a current transaction with this person, PLEASE contact a Mod immediately.

Hmmm...not sure how you should proceed. I too can see the orange mark in the listing, so it's going to be a hard thing to say you didn't notice. I actually should say a hard thing from your sellers point of view most likely to say you didn't notice.

I suppose you could send them a message and see what they say. I would be prepared though that they are under no obligation to give you a  partial refund, you will most likely have to send the pony back for a full refund.

Good Luck and keep us posted. 

For eBay purchases, PayPal always uses the address from eBay.
 
So, you need to change the default shipping address on eBay, not on PayPal.  Changing your address on an eBay payment doesn't change anything in your PayPal account. Here's how to change your address on eBay. You can remove addresses there if you're not going to use them again, and make sure that the correct address is shown as the default shipping address so you won't have to worry about it.

Go to My eBay > Account
Click Addresses.
Click Change next to the address you want to update.

But just to make sure you can log into Paypal and change it there also.

Click on the 'profile' tab
Click update email
Check another address
Click 'make primary'
Confirm

This topic has been moved to Pony Corral.

http://mlparena.com/index.php?topic=372874.0

Let's keep it civil folks! This is a brag thread, it is not a place for the discussion of deboxing items. I have removed all comments pertaining to that. Thanks! PL