The MLP Arena
Pony Talk => Off Topic => Topic started by: banditpony on June 26, 2018, 05:52:33 PM
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Is double happiness (囍) only for weddings / new marriages... or is it ok to put it up after 5+ years into the marriage.
(I'm moving, and I never took it down from what i had it up originally. But my husband questioned me if I should put it up in the new house).
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Im not sure but if it was me id put it up if it makes me feel happy ^^
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I don't want to look like a fool in front of family though...
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Hmm...can’t really help you with this. Sorry. I don’t know much regarding that kind of stuff. Strange, obscure facts about japan and the culture that people would rather I forget? I got ya there. Anywhere else in Asia? Nope. But I’m sure if you put it up because you both are happy, and have double the happiness, there’s nothing wrong.
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But I’m sure if you put it up because you both are happy, and have double the happiness, there’s nothing wrong.
*sigh*
I don't want to look like a fool or offend family.
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I don't think it would offend.
The Chinese slap it on all kinds of products these days so it can't possibly be limited to use only for weddings/new marriages.
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We got a nice plaque with that symbol on it as a wedding present. Then it fell off our wall and broke... interestingly enough, the couple who GAVE it to us divorced!
I think it would be just fine to put it up on display, maybe with a wedding photo or other memorabilia. Shrines and the like are popular in Taoist/Buddhist cultures, so I don't think you are doing the wrong thing by keeping it around. :)
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Could you hang it up somewhere more private, like the bedroom? Somewhere extended family won't see it.
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It's associated with marriage but don't think it is specifically limited to the day of the wedding. I am not Chinese or Asian so I can be wrong.
I'm going back in 2 months, I can ask someone.
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It's associated with marriage but don't think it is specifically limited to the day of the wedding. I am not Chinese or Asian so I can be wrong.
I'm going back in 2 months, I can ask someone.
It's not limited to the day, since it's also for new marriages (or single women to attract love). I don't know if there's a limit in general.
If for some reason you remember to ask when you are in China, that would be amazing. I'd be very grateful! Preferably someone a little bit older? I imagine kids wouldn't care.
^_^ I know no one at the arena (or my friends) would care, I'm just worried about someone from another culture and generation.
We got a nice plaque with that symbol on it as a wedding present. Then it fell off our wall and broke... interestingly enough, the couple who GAVE it to us divorced!
How ironic o.o
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I've never been invited to one but I have seen a few weddings at my old apartment complex. I could always tell when there was one that day because all the manholes would be covered in a red paper. I eventually asked someone why they were covered and they said it had something to do with unwanted spirits messing up the wedding or something like that.