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I've heard that usually people on the spectrum have select interests while I have almost too many? I am constantly jumping from one interest to another and I am not good at being organized at all though I want to be.
Quote from: FantasticFirefly on March 13, 2016, 04:14:21 PM. while my brother delayed in speaking and regressed at stages I spoke early and they couldn't get me to stop talking about my interests. There was no issue with regression. And, eye contact and speaking on the phone with strangers are two things I have not needed for work thus far. I spoke at ten months. I read at 2. I added up road speed signs in my head at 4, without anyone teaching me maths. I could write at 4, too. I had a much broader vocabulary than anyone else I went to school with before I even went to school. And I have always talked a lot about stuff xD.With HFA students and Aspie students I met, I haven't yet met one who went through any kind of regression. I think that tends to happen with more severe or non-verbal types of autism.Communication is an issue but its an issue in different ways for different people. Girls are generally more communicative and better at mimicking, anyway - but being verbal doesn't determine yes or no with this. Especially when a lot of the diagnostic stuff is based on guys, still, and a lot of 'expert' opinions are flawed because the bulk of data has come from guys. As I said before, the Aspergirls book is worth a read, even if just a casual one. I haven't found much else that's really girl-Autistic centric...
. while my brother delayed in speaking and regressed at stages I spoke early and they couldn't get me to stop talking about my interests. There was no issue with regression. And, eye contact and speaking on the phone with strangers are two things I have not needed for work thus far.
You're absolutely right that there are positive traits to it. Those of us with Asperger syndrome tend to have a high vocabulary and be very intelligent and the thing that's our main focus (for me it's always been my art) we excel at. The heightened senses part of it that cause anxiety have made me wish I didn't have it but my husband and mom both have said that it's part of what makes me who I am and I wouldn't be me without it and they are right. I can't stand to be crowded. I need a lot of personal space and it's horrible the amount of people that don't respect another person's personal space. I am extremely sensitive to fragrances. They can cause me to feel sick and an overexposure to things like perfume or laundry detergents/cleaners have made me actually get a sore throat. Last time I used Clorox wipes to clean in my bathroom, the scent stayed for days and I ended up with strep throat. I take my headphones and mp3 player with me wherever I go because I can't stand loud noises and drowning it out with music helps. So yeah. That can make life hard and since I work with retail, those anxieties get triggered an awful lot. They're awfully good at accommodating meat work though. An official diagnosis will help people help you and it's great to hear that you're going to look into getting one. Also coming up with your own coping mechanisms for the anxieties that come with it helps too and I'm sure you already have them.
I'm not caught up here because there's a lot of text and my energy is low on waking up, but I wanted to add that I have regression issues in my skills and 'functioning.' Though, this definitely ties into me having PTSD, + time spent working too hard to do basic stuff without enough help and/or spent trying to act neurotypical leads to burnout. Some info on Burnout! http://neurodivergentabusesupport.tumblr.com/post/132224399785/ive-played-allistic-for-so-long-that-i-dont-even#notesI am growing less independent over the last couple of years because I had no support for so long and my brain + body are basically just exhausted. I can't go out on my own, cook for myself, need help washing my hair most of the time etc. and most recently it's getting very hard to read difficult or long things. I had to drop out of school for now a bit ago as well to focus on recovering from burnout. Don't worry though, that isn't likely to happen unless you're in a situation for many years forcing NT behavior regularly or otherwise being treated very badly for a sustained time. (for me, all of childhood+teenage-hood.) I may add something when I get around to reading the rest of the thread, but theres so much great discussion here!
I genuinely think we need an autistic pony club...I am envious of you artistic peoples. I write. I write a lot, and I love writing. But I can't draw :-/ I have synesthesia, tho, and I connect to music a lot.I also love Japanese too. <3. It has such a nice melodic rhythm - but I think my obsession with languages comes from that drive to communicate with the world somehow...Hoping if I get a chance this summer to begin Mandarin or Korean...or both. I've done a little Mandarin and two of my flatmates speak it, but I want to do Korean too...(P.S, in all the negatives with the world and autism, a nice story. My flatmates, two of them had birthdays around this week, so they had a joint party on Saturday. I don't really like parties, but they wanted me to go, so I did. It was only a small get-together. They know about my ASD, and that I dislike stuff like that. Yesterday one of them gave me a card to thank me for being there. That meant something to me - that she appreciated my effort and I appreciated her understanding.)
(P.S, in all the negatives with the world and autism, a nice story. My flatmates, two of them had birthdays around this week, so they had a joint party on Saturday. I don't really like parties, but they wanted me to go, so I did. It was only a small get-together. They know about my ASD, and that I dislike stuff like that. Yesterday one of them gave me a card to thank me for being there. That meant something to me - that she appreciated my effort and I appreciated her understanding.)
We had a very long discussion about this in the WYP board a while ago, and we did come to a consensus that there is a large number of us in the collecting community who are also on the autism spectrum. I do want to note, however, that it is not technically correct anymore to use the term "Asperger's syndrome" and many people who were diagnosed with Asperger's as children have been re-diagnosed later in life as being on the autism spectrum.
I am envious of you artistic peoples. I write. I write a lot, and I love writing. But I can't draw :-/
My brother has been diagnosed with Asperger's, I can't remember when because I was very young at the time. He has a lot of trouble focusing and doing work he finds uninteresting, which has made school difficult for him. I don't think I have Asperger's personally even though my brother does and I am almost certain some of my other family members do too. I think I have a few of the traits though, but then again I think many people would exhibit at least a few. People with Asperger's certainly like to collect things though, my brother got inspired by my pony collection and started collecting Pokémon cards a few months ago. It has that certain appeal I guess!