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Quote from: kitkatvintage on August 02, 2016, 07:36:56 PMI'll just add what I posted in the other thread.Quote from: kitkatvintage on August 02, 2016, 07:27:37 PMIt's probably best if this thread is merged with the other rather than having 2 different threads about the same issue.It seems like the biggest problem in the entire situation is communication and lack of patience. A return needs to be worked out with a seller no matter what the circumstances. If the return via Paypal came about because Tak called her credit card company & made a charge-back claim, that's a serious problem. A charge-back claim is to be used for fraud, not simply wanting to return an item. If that is the case, the swiftness of Paypal's response makes a lot more sense now. It seems like this should be looked at as 2 separate transactions:1. a sale from Dr EsmeRose to Tak2. a sale from Tak to PierlalaAfter getting the 3 sides of the story, it seems less like a middleman situation, and more like one person bought something to sell at cost to another person. This /\I agree after reading everything.
I'll just add what I posted in the other thread.Quote from: kitkatvintage on August 02, 2016, 07:27:37 PMIt's probably best if this thread is merged with the other rather than having 2 different threads about the same issue.It seems like the biggest problem in the entire situation is communication and lack of patience. A return needs to be worked out with a seller no matter what the circumstances. If the return via Paypal came about because Tak called her credit card company & made a charge-back claim, that's a serious problem. A charge-back claim is to be used for fraud, not simply wanting to return an item. If that is the case, the swiftness of Paypal's response makes a lot more sense now. It seems like this should be looked at as 2 separate transactions:1. a sale from Dr EsmeRose to Tak2. a sale from Tak to PierlalaAfter getting the 3 sides of the story, it seems less like a middleman situation, and more like one person bought something to sell at cost to another person.
It's probably best if this thread is merged with the other rather than having 2 different threads about the same issue.It seems like the biggest problem in the entire situation is communication and lack of patience. A return needs to be worked out with a seller no matter what the circumstances. If the return via Paypal came about because Tak called her credit card company & made a charge-back claim, that's a serious problem. A charge-back claim is to be used for fraud, not simply wanting to return an item. If that is the case, the swiftness of Paypal's response makes a lot more sense now.
What a mess!I feel bad for everyone involved. Just...what a mess!
Convoluted, international transactions involving multiple people, with strangers loaning large sums of money out, and a minimum of discussion/disclosure of all parties involved, are probably not ever going to end well.
This is why I take responsibility for the mistakes and made it right with both DrEsmeRose and Pierlala financially as soon as possible. As far as the chargeback, I was told "why don't you just do a chargeback?" When I was having trouble getting in contact with the seller. My card company did say it's just fine to do one if the product doesn't match the description.
Quote from: Tak on August 02, 2016, 08:09:09 PMThis is why I take responsibility for the mistakes and made it right with both DrEsmeRose and Pierlala financially as soon as possible. As far as the chargeback, I was told "why don't you just do a chargeback?" When I was having trouble getting in contact with the seller. My card company did say it's just fine to do one if the product doesn't match the description.Okay, see Tak, the problem with this is that the pony DID match her description. You didn't ask for more details or know what to look for. That's on you, not the seller. That does not make their description wrong. You even said the pony was fine and approved her.Chargebacks are a BIG deal and should not be filed willy-nilly like that.
So what about the ponies Pierlala sent in trade to Tak?
I'm really sorry to read this thread, Ill hold my opinions and hope everyone involved is satisfied by whatever the final resolution is. What I do want to say is that I very much hope everyone knows that middlemen and networks of friends/collectors can work and can still be a wonderful thing. There are safety measurers that should be taken, communication is vital and everyone involved needs to understand their part and take responsibility but honestly some of the most fun and rewarding experiences I've had as a collector has been from collaboration and networking, so it kills me to see a thread like this. Not trying to hijack this topic, but dident want it to leave the impression that networks or middlemen arrangments have to end badly.
FF,Especially since she is a Rapunzel, I had and still have no idea if her hair is perfect. The woman I originally purchased her from had this in eBay listing: Hair: All plugs are present. Her tinsel gets a little wild but it is not too crinkly. I do not think she has a hair cut as the ends of her hair have a factory appearance. Her curls are a little tight right now. I included a picture of her all wet when I was shampooing her so you can see the length. She does have some dryness and frizz.(Original listing from which I PM purchased: http://www.ebay.com/itm/Rare-Vintage-G1-My-Little-Pony-Mail-Order-Offer-Rapunzel-Gorgeous-/322060375525?cp=1&euid=4b0fc9bc178e47eeabafc34e79ded635&nma=true&si=Bni0yjq50JCtqggGiisy5yhZYlc%3D&orig_cvip=true&rt=nc&_trksid=p2047675.l2557)
Quote from: kasin on August 03, 2016, 11:54:49 AMI'm really sorry to read this thread, Ill hold my opinions and hope everyone involved is satisfied by whatever the final resolution is. What I do want to say is that I very much hope everyone knows that middlemen and networks of friends/collectors can work and can still be a wonderful thing. There are safety measurers that should be taken, communication is vital and everyone involved needs to understand their part and take responsibility but honestly some of the most fun and rewarding experiences I've had as a collector has been from collaboration and networking, so it kills me to see a thread like this. Not trying to hijack this topic, but dident want it to leave the impression that networks or middlemen arrangments have to end badly. No, this is a very good point. But you've got to know your trading partners. There was a huge communication breakdown in this particular transaction and usually, sellers are made aware of when they are working with a third party. Plus, the third party is really only used to receive items and ship them to their final destination. I have never heard of that person making payment for a pony on behalf of another like this before. For this transaction, as far as the seller was concerned, the sale was completed successfully when she heard that the pony was received and the buyer was satisfied. Not only did Tak message her directly of satisfaction, but Pierlala confirmed satisfaction on here and in her brag thread and buyer's remorse struck once she realized the mane was cut, probably exacerbated by the knowledge that the price was on the high end for Rapunzel to begin with and having had to pay €200 import duties. The pony should never have been returned in the first place. I requested, but did not see, the original FB sales post to verify whether or not the item was mis-represented. It sounds like the item was not mis-represented but Pierlala failed to do her due diligence in her enthusiasm to buy Rapunzel and Tak is unfortunately stuck in the middle. As others have said, Tak should not have to pick up the pieces for this at all but at this point, it's her choice and if all parties are happy, as Hathorcat has said, this seems to be resolved.
What a mess indeed! The only thing that is bothering me a bit, is that Pierlala is made the 'bad guy' and Tak the 'victim'. If I'm getting it correctly Tak bought Rapunzel even before Pierlala could really think about it. First of all, I don't know either of them, but I PM'd with Pierlala recently because I saw Rapunzel for sale on Marktplaats (our kind of Ebay in The Netherlands). She asked me to remove my post because she didn't want to upset the Arena member that helped her to get Rapunzel (me not knowing it was Tak). I can't help but feeling that she has been pushed to buy without real consideration, with all consequences that followed. Ok, she has had the pictures up front, but the sale was done before she knew. She didn't want to upset Tak so went through with it. In fact, she was left with no choice? I do think it was wrong to send her back to the first seller through a Paypal claim. But in fact she should have been able to return it to Tak because she is the real seller for Pierlala? I think that she should have declined the buying of Rapunzel in the first place, but that wouldn't change the situation. Tak would have bought Rapunzel already and would loose money.