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Oh, it's been a sort of rollercoaster for me and my ponies since I started collecting '06 xDmy ex didn't really support it, and the first time I "fell out of love" so to speak with the ponies (I didn't really, but I got fed up with it all because of our situation) when he made it clear it was only OK for me to have them in the room where I'd have my art supplies, hamsters etc. basically the room he never entered. It was done in a very condescending way and I gave up on art, on ponies and I'm sad to say the hammies got a bit too little attention, too. But it's a whole other story.After I kicked him out, I moved back in with my parents and put EVERYTHING on display, and started buying a bit again. This was when g4 was new, so I was getting into those as well.Then I started working, and could afford BJDs and got into that hobby, which made me sort of once again fall out of love with ponies, but I kept them on display.Fast forward couple of years to when I moved in with my fiancé at his parents', where I couldn't keep ponies xD I ahd one pony there, maybe two. Our room was super tiny. I just focused intensely on BJDs, and we started collecting nendoroids, and I sold a great chunk of my collection. I enjoyed it, but it was never the same as the ponies.Couple years forward yet, we got our own house, and I got shelves to display my ponies. Finally! We're now on our third year of living in this house, and I've just started getting back into ponies again. I had a spell last summer where I did, but our economical situation went down the drain due to one of our cats having a lot of medical issues. Now everyhing is stabilizing, and I am enjoying buying a pony every now and then We're even going to reorganize the collection together. my fiancé is super supportive of my ponies, and he has since day one. When it comes to others judging me for it... One of my friend's ex teased me for it. He thought it was silly. I never liked him anyway, so I don't care. My other friends have all just accepted it, luckily. But if they can't accept me for who I am and for the hobbies I have, I figure they're not worth my time My collector's pose collection is basicallly the centerpiece in our living room, and then I have another display above our bed, so they're definitely very in your face if you visit our house. (fun times if that ever collapses. we'll be buried in ponies xD )
Welcome back!You'll have to excuse my typos I usually post from my phone. I grew on a huge farm, and I've always had horses. Horses have been my everything for w very long time or were. I collected ponies and model horses and had them everywhere. When I got older and went to college I left my real horses and toys behind. I eventually met my ex wife and moved with her working different jobs and away from horses. It had been almost ten years and at one point when our relationship was starting to break I found ponies. It was after the friendship is magic started and someone mentioned it and I thought about my old ponies. My ex wife mentioned having had a lot of them but they burned in a fire when she was a kid. I started secretly buying some for her for Christmas when I found the arena and surprisingly bought myself some too.My ex didn't like to spend time with me, and we were in a different place all alone. I used to have horses as my outlet to make me feel better, but they were gone and suddenly I had ponies. It wasn't healthy, but I ended up having several and we got into it. My ex hated them, thought they were weird and made fun of me constantly. She wasn't working and eventually I sold most of the ponies when I had a little mental meltdown from work (I worked in a bad school with lots of drugs and violence) and relationship problems.I've come to the community off and on for years since then altough I cut ties with basically everyone I used to talk with much. About a year ago after moving home and finding a job close I wanted my own horse again. I searched and bought Nevada before my relationship with her finished dying. Before she left I had sold most of my ponies and in an angry fit I sold most of the rest of them.I've slowly come around again to the fact I love my ponies and horses and have started collecting again. My new girlfriend is so supportive and sweet about it. I'm not going to feel bad they make me happy, and I love that Amber is so sweet about my ponies. They make me smile during times when I cannot get out to Nevada.
Oh my goodness!!! <3 <3 <3 Thank you so much for reading my article and I'm so glad it was able to re-ignite your passion for collecting! Ponies have absolutely changed my life for the better. I know I focus a lot on my husband in the article, but I mainly wanted to write it to contrast with all the negative collecting articles and T.V. shows that are out there in abundance...from My Strange Addiction to Hoarders, to articles about how an obsessive collecting habit ruined someone's life. I wanted to show that there IS a healthy way to collect something, and that fandom can be wonderful and positive! Thanks again for reading my article. I'm so flattered. <3 I love my pony people! I'll be at the fair this year, dressed as G1 Starglow. So if you see me, feel free to come say hi!
I am very lucky that my family and friends have always known and appreciated my personality- sweet, independent, blunt, and a bit of a weirdo. No one was really surprised when I told them about ponies...I was "in the closet" for a while, but as time went on I became more involved in events and planning, met more and more people in our community, it stopped seeming shameful or like something I wanted to hide. My interests are my interests, and when I told my very wise best friend about ponies, he said "Being successful at something when you feel second-hand shame from other people about is the best way to neutralize their unkindness. I think that you f**king rock."However, now that my collection has grown in size and value, I feel more conscious of how much space ponies take up in our tiny apartment. I mean, in 800 sqft a bookshelf stacked high covered with like 100 ponies is A LOT...and there are 150 more on my wish list! Proportionately my collection is kinda small and definitely not encyclopedic; I couldn't fill a pony room if I had one! Although I'm proactively planning how to display my collection and prioritizing larger items (already got my dream castle and any G4 MIBs I care about), it's still tough to justify occupying such a large percentage of our home with My Little Pony. Hubby is a wonderful and supportive partner with his own bookshelf of board games...but visually it just doesn't dominate the same way brightly colored joyful ponies do. To be continued when we move at the end of the summer...
There are some great stories on here.I hid it a lot when I was a teenager, but as an online collector...once. I didn't get any abuse in real life. I never have had from anyone. People who didn't know, didn't know. People who did have been ok with it. One friend I told recently was all like, "oh, I had them, I still have them back home!", so that was nice. I'm going to try and persuade her to dig them out when she goes back next, but she's not from the UK and it's a long way back, so that won't be soon. I'm just curious to know what ponies she had xd.I had my biggest issues online. I was stalked, essentially, by two pony collectors.I'm not going to give names, both have gone and I've heard explanations for why it happened, although I think the people who received those explanations were lied to, as most of the information they had was incorrect.Let me be honest from the start - I am still quite blunt and I know I am (and you guys probably do too >.>) but when I first came online I was much more direct with how I dealt with stuff, and very naive to the idea of people and trusting them. I thought all pony people would be nice because they liked ponies, and I was punished for that fact. I probably offended some people - I know I went and found a lot of people I thought I might have offended after I had my diagnosis, so I could clear the air from my teenage pony soapbox rants (they were worse than my ones these days, I promise >.>) but I never did anything with any malice.Around 1999-2000, when I was dealing with a lot of real life issues as well, I had a couple of people making threats against me online. They created other online IDs to come and stalk me and pretend to be someone else. They would play good cop bad cop on me to try and get me to react. I traded with one of them and never got what I was owed - I still didn't get what I was owed, and they claimed the box got lost, but I know it didn't as items that were meant to be in it turned up later in a different context. And because they had the address, one of them then told me that she was sending her boyfriend to come get me if I didn't take down my website (on UK ponies, which at the time also had variants on).I had a complete emotional breakdown. I wasn't diagnosed with autism then, but ponies are and were a big coping mechanism for me growing up. Those people took that and destroyed it. It took a long time to get that love back. It is now back. I don't care about those people any more. When their names come up and people talk about them like they were not monsters, I get a twinge inside of me - but it's over and I've let it go. I'm not a child now and I won't let them or anyone take away from me something that's precious. The only issue my family have with my collecting is space. They get that it's important and that there's this weird element of my brain that the more complex and academic I become with my PhD work, the more childish I then become with my hobbies. So it tends to go something like this:Analyse text. Translate text. Come up with a theory linking texts together. Go away and brush (x doll/pony)'s hair and braid it. As an adult and 34 years old now, I've finally accepted that that is part of me. The adult comes with the child. The two have to work together or I don't function to my best ability. My family know that I achieve more if I have my collections, and MLP has helped me hugely over the years. Even despite the above experience, it's because of MLP that I went to a pony meet, met pony people, made new friends, connected...So on balance I owe a lot to my ponies. And even though there have been bad times in the past, I'm so grateful for having them now. Even when I'm away from them in London, like now.This thread is really uplifting and inspiring in a lot of ways, though it's sad that so many people have also had struggles in regards to their collecting. There are far worse things you could be doing than collecting ponies.
Aw That's great. I was a little quieter about it at first, like I said, but now my mom brings ponies home for me from the thrift store and so do her friends, lol and they all get so excited about it. Hehe. Even still, sometimes I still ask myself "Is this weird?" Do you collect breyers? I have some retired breyers that I've been thinking about putting up. I used to collect grand champions too. I think you're right, people are more accepting of realistic looking horse models and toys than they are of fun, colorful little ponies. And I think @brightberry had a point as well, people tend to also be more accepting over boy toys-- like model cars for example. Thank you so much for your story and your encouragement I hope your collection grows!
Thanks for the welcome! I totally get it, I go through periods were I'm totally into it and then I'm "meh," and that happened when for two years I was just lugging them around and had a lot of other things to worry about, but when I fell into an emotional crisis, I was really happy I started up again. I would sit on it for a while, though two years seems like a long time--- lol, I'm not sure, now... You'll figure it out, I'ms ure I will say, I tend to sell off the ponies I am not "wild" about or don't "need," so my collection is relatively small. I just circulate through some things and keep the things I really value. Maybe downsize a bit? Get rid of some the things you're not wild about? See how it goes/feels?I love TMNT <3 Heeee and Disney too of course. I don't collect the turtles, but I have a HUGE Disney VHS collection of the original movies that we just kept through the years, and there's a handful I found at the thrift store. I plan on watching the crap out of them until they wear out and then breaking and buying the new movies. I've just heard about something to do with voice overs or different music or something and I was like... NOPE.I have a ton of hobbies as wellt. Sometimes I'm all over the house with the house plants and gardening, then I'm painting and drawing, then I'm writing, and I had a thing with bonsais for a while and I've got a couple MH dolls and BJs... I'm all over the map
Yes, I do collect Breyers, please PM pics of the Breyers you are putting up, I always love getting more I mainly collect pony parade size models like Schleich-S, Collecta, Safari ltd etc. because there are no Breyer resellers in Estonia So I order them twice a year and they are the pride of my collection
Only a few of the movies have major cuts or music/voice Do overs. Things like Make Mine Music, Melody Time those two are heavily edited in the USA and the only full unedited versions are European exclusive. Aladdin had to redo the song so there is not a single DVD version I know of that does not have the edit where they cut out: "In a land where they cut off your ear if they don't like your face" As the Arab communities were very upset about it. Um... let me think here Muppet Christmas Carol they cut out an entire song when they bought up muppets so you need a jim henson DVD or a very specific one that has the full length movie in full screen format. However no where on the dvd says that it includes the cut song in the full screen option. I can't think of anything else off the top of my head other than that stupid phase of them re adding cut songs to movies granted they give you the option at the beginning of the dvd but still Lion King and Beauty and the Beast I didn't care for the re-added songs. Pocahontas has a cut scene I feel would have added so much more to the movie but the test audience children it didn't go over well. Probably my favorite song in the entire film as an adult. My main collection the last two years has been upgrading my VHS to dvd and or blu ray. To be honest I've been thinking about selling off my Munchy and getting the Cogsworth Clock to go with my Lumiere lamp.
Nope... my ponies are on my terms. If someone doesn't like them, me and the ponies leave. :-pI don't have any friends to make fun of me or comment. Nearly all of my family is dead so they can't comment. I don't tell people that I collect.... because then they assume I have money to spend on collectibles. I already get mocked at work for shopping at Value Village for clothing... can't imagine what they would say if they knew I also bought housewares and toys too.
Well, here is my story. When I was little I went into special classes. No idea the reasons behind it I never found out what "challenge" I had. I suppose I collected ponies to cope but I am not sure why. I was teased a lot by the other kids. They made fun of the special kids. I'm very sensitive to this now as an adult. I was often told I was strange or odd. I never payed it any interest as a kid though deep down it hurt. I still don't really care now as an adult though I handle the teasing better. I really just love all ponies even the weird quirky ones. I guess that is what me and the ponies have in common or the odd ball ones. :/
Quote from: SkyCakes on June 25, 2016, 03:20:08 PMWell, here is my story. When I was little I went into special classes. No idea the reasons behind it I never found out what "challenge" I had. I suppose I collected ponies to cope but I am not sure why. I was teased a lot by the other kids. They made fun of the special kids. I'm very sensitive to this now as an adult. I was often told I was strange or odd. I never payed it any interest as a kid though deep down it hurt. I still don't really care now as an adult though I handle the teasing better. I really just love all ponies even the weird quirky ones. I guess that is what me and the ponies have in common or the odd ball ones. :/Well, I don't think you're an oddball and considering how many people are on this forum and MLPTP, I'd say this is way more normal than any of us realize. We're hobbyiest, plain and simple. The world is changing and even though Bronies are considered weird by some, they are actually breaking a lot of social norms and more and more people are getting back into their childhood interests. I am very sorry to hear about the way you've been treated. My fiance is incredibly smart, he can do fractions in his head and build anything (he's a carpenter), but for some reason a teacher was hard on him at school and peers called him stupid-- all because he had a different way of seeing things or learning. Some school systems just really aren't there yet. I live in Canada and they are trying at least, but it's unfortunately way too slow of a process. I am glad you're a pony collector and on this forum
Thanks for the info! That doesn't sound too bad, though I am REALLY curious about this Pocahontas song!!!!! What's the name of it? I'd love to look it up.We're slowly updating things and now that I know that the Disney edits aren't too bad, I might be able to let my VHS's go.We just but the original Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles live-action movie and my fiance LOVED it. It was in the $10 blu ray bin at Walmart. I love those beautiful bins <3