*UPDATE - it's got messy* Advice re buyer with no contact/payment?

[Ringlets]

  definitely not a good experience

Snipping Tool is a wonderful thing if she felt like sending you a screen shot of the bank transfer...

I agree. It sounds like if she did send payment and that's a BIG if, she sent it to the wrong Paypal address.

Post Merge: November 04, 2014, 02:23:13 PM

*edit* to add she is a member here. Although she has not signed on for a year.

This ^^  its very possible that she could have sent payment to the wrong address but why is she not checking and showing proof of payment?
and  the accusing you of fraud and the communication issues as well as other people having issues with the same person makes it very likely that this person has not sent the payment, and also makes me think you'd be better off not dealing with them. If the payment actually comes through then (speaking as if it was me dealing with her - its your choice in the end what you'd prefer of course) I would refund her right away and then offer the pony to the next person

[Marlin]

Thanks, Ringlets.  Yep... I'm definitely moving on. Still nothing from this awful trader (payment or any correspondence) and thank goodness. I don't want anything to do with her ever again.

Buyer Number Two is taking on Sugarberry now and all going well, all will hopefully be wrapped up very happily by the end of next week 

[ponylady]

I am glad there is going to be a happy ending finally. Hopefully this person will move on and stop wasting folks time.

[Ringlets]

 
I'm glad this is going to turn out well with buyer 2 as well

[Marlin]

Thanks, guys! Yep - Sugarberry's new home is much more deserving, so all going well, a happy ending for the pony, too!