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Offline teacher316

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What would you have said?
« on: April 24, 2014, 10:18:48 AM »
My  mother-in-law(who knows I'm a pony collector) asked me what my hubby got for my birthday. I told her
about the ponies and she laughed and said "you'll be 99 years old and still getting ponies!" I laughed too and didn't say much in response. But I thought her comment was strange. :huh:
 I love my mother-in-law. She's very sweet and doesn't make fun of my collecting. She even collects lots of things herself(dolls,music boxes,jewelry-to name a few) so I wondered why she said that. Am I reading into this too much? I keep thinking about what I should have said and how I'm sure her comment didn't mean to hurt my feelings. It just bothers me but I know it shouldn't. :(
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Re: What would you have said?
« Reply #1 on: April 24, 2014, 10:40:57 AM »
I would have said that I'll be getting ponies even longer than 99 years because ponies keep you young therefore more long-lived :D
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Re: What would you have said?
« Reply #2 on: April 24, 2014, 11:38:41 AM »
In my opinion I don't see any malice in the comment :) I would have said "Most definitely!" xD And I like RobynGraves statement too! ^.^
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Re: What would you have said?
« Reply #3 on: April 24, 2014, 11:43:28 AM »
You are going to know the context and tone as well as the personality of the person commenting better than the rest of us. But on the surface of it, I would say that seems a perfectly innocent comment with no hidden meanings. I would just have agreed if it had been me :)
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Re: What would you have said?
« Reply #4 on: April 24, 2014, 11:45:15 AM »
I think she was just trying to be cute.. you should have said YEP!! Even longer cus hasbro plastic will out live us all!

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Re: What would you have said?
« Reply #5 on: April 24, 2014, 12:14:23 PM »
You are going to know the context and tone as well as the personality of the person commenting better than the rest of us. But on the surface of it, I would say that seems a perfectly innocent comment with no hidden meanings. I would just have agreed if it had been me :)

Pretty much, this.  From what it sounds like, it sounds to me like she might have been enthusiastic for you and thinking that your love for ponies was going to be around for a very, very long time.  It's hard to judge that from not being there, though.  I'd think that if she was being unsupportive she would have said something more along the lines of "Ugh, ponies AGAIN?!" or "Aren't you getting a little too old for that" instead of applauding the thought of you continuing to collect in the future :)

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Re: What would you have said?
« Reply #6 on: April 24, 2014, 12:30:20 PM »
Sounds pretty benign to me? 

I will definitely still be getting ponies for my BD when I'm 99, and even 105.  Finding ponies without significant vinyl deterioration may be a bit of a challenge at that point, but I'm up for it!

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Re: What would you have said?
« Reply #7 on: April 24, 2014, 12:43:17 PM »
My  mother-in-law(who knows I'm a pony collector) asked me what my hubby got for my birthday. I told her
about the ponies and she laughed and said "you'll be 99 years old and still getting ponies!" I laughed too and didn't say much in response. But I thought her comment was strange. :huh:
 I love my mother-in-law. She's very sweet and doesn't make fun of my collecting. She even collects lots of things herself(dolls,music boxes,jewelry-to name a few) so I wondered why she said that. Am I reading into this too much? I keep thinking about what I should have said and how I'm sure her comment didn't mean to hurt my feelings. It just bothers me but I know it shouldn't. :(
What would you have said?
  Taking into account what you said that she collects and that she is sweet ,I would think that she wishes you a long life of collecting nothing else :)
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Re: What would you have said?
« Reply #8 on: April 24, 2014, 12:49:14 PM »
I think she was joking... I would have rolled my eyes and gone that right ;)

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Re: What would you have said?
« Reply #9 on: April 24, 2014, 12:57:38 PM »
What a wonderful thought... Still getting ponies until you're 99! :o)

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Re: What would you have said?
« Reply #10 on: April 24, 2014, 01:49:25 PM »
Thanks for helping me to look at her comment differently everyone:) I never thought of like you all did. I know there was no malice intended.
I hope my love of mlp does last until I'm 99, maybe they'll keep me feeling young like Robyngraves said!

 

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