problem with a seller on Ebay ( kaoru_deg )

[Sternenstaub]

@Naraya:
Is it a german seller?
Can you please pm me his ebaynick that I don't buy from him as well? Thank you!! 

[Ringlets]

Yes please do confirm that its the same seller. If it is the same person we can  merge threads and perhaps it would be helpful to put the sellers name in the title of the thread as well 
  I really hope this person replies to you Hokus
also if I see a baby stargaze for sale I will let you know. I got mine for cheap from ebay UK and you can  find them on there for a good price sometimes

[Naraya]

@Sternenstaub: Yes, a German seller, I will PM you!

Oh, isn't there a rule saying that you have to give your real name to Paypal? The name this person is registered with on Paypal is definitely not her real name!

I left a negative now and can you believe that I felt a bit terrible doing this? I really must be stupid!

[ponylady]

   Your not stupid.
 It would have been one thing if she tried to rectify the situation but she didn't.  She didn't even attempt to fight the case.  And to me that shows she didn't care to much about her feedback to begin with.

[hokuspokus]

Indeed a German seller. I knew it was the same person

[hokuspokus]

Your seller is German, right? Maybe you can message me her name so I can check if it's the same person.

Indeed German.
I'll PM you right away, but i think i'll list her on bad trader list as well, when she keeps ignoring me.


Thanks for your help, Ringlets!

I know it's "just" €10 i lost, but it's the whole thing that makes me sad. That people do this, for example. I emailed her again today, by the way. But i think for me there will not be a solution anymore.
I'm feeling really stupid and dumb about the 45 day limit, i can't shake that feeling off.

[Ringlets]

*hugs Naraya*    I know leaving someone a neg doesnt feel good, but you did the right thing 

[Naraya]

I just sent you a PM, hokuspokus!


Threads can be merged, it definitely is the same person!


I just checked my Paypal account and there was a lot of information about her! I have her real name, e-mail address and a mobile phone number! I can also see that she has given a false name to Paypal which could be used against her, I guess. She had a online shop, too, but it is closed down now.


Maybe you should try this the hard way, send her a SMS, saying that you have her real name and tell her, you will talk to the police if she doesn't send over the pony. And maybe you should report the false name to Paypal.

Post Merge: May 02, 2012, 01:21:44 AM

I just checked my Paypal account and there was a lot of information about her! I have her real name, e-mail address and a mobile phone number! I can also see that she has given a false name to Paypal which could be used against her, I guess. She had a online shop, too, but it is closed down now.

I did some reserach again. The name she gave to Paypal is the name of her business which was a fashion shop. I also have the postal address of that shop if needed.

[hokuspokus]

Thanks Naraya!

I'll come to update if i have more news!

[hokuspokus]

And now i got a weird Email.... :S
Naraya, i'm gonna PM you as she mentioned something about you.

by the way: with paypal i could note this problem! Hopefully i'll get in my rights!

[Ringlets]

Thanks for confirming that its the same person. I merged the threads for you  
 So the person is sending weird emails now as well?!     I  think it would be best to post the name of the seller here so I can add it to the title of the thread since more than one person has problems with them.

[BerryMouse]

Yes please cause I don't want to deal with this person!

Sounds awfull!

[hokuspokus]

The sellers name on Ebay is 'kaoru_deg' and lives in Germany.
Tried to sell me the pony that Naraya bought, but never got. Like i'm gonna buy another pony when the first she sended didn't show up (and Naraya's neither).

I just KNOW the 3rd one will not show up either. The weird thing is that the seller has also some pretty good FB on Ebay.

[Naraya]

She basically told hokupokus the same things she said to me: how it was all my fault and how she had sent the pony twice but it had been returned twice because I hadn't picked it up at the post office. Sorry, but she is just a liar!
 
I asked her about some things but never got an answer:
 
- Where is her proof of shipping? I paid for tracked shipping! (Well, she obviously has none!)
- Where are those messages she said she had sent to me? (I had Ebay check my inbox to prove I was saying the truth!)
- Why didn't she answer my messages just until I filed the claim?
- Why didn't she try and work things out with me? Why didn't she ask me about my address?
 
I saw that she has a good reputation on Ebay. My theory is that she maybe really was in hospital and that her brother made some mistakes when sending those parcels. Maybe he wrote the wrong addresses on them or misspelled something. I really would have understood that, but I don't want  to be lied to. I'm a good Ebay buyer myself with lots of good feedback. I wouldn't file a claim just to blame someone. And I really wanted the pony!

[ponylady]

I don't think the blame lies anywhere else but on the seller.  I understand that unexpected things come up but you should always have a back up plan.  And by the sounds of it, it should not have been her brother whom she is claiming supposedly sent out these packages.  If you both have checked your mailing address's and they are correct then she screwed up. 
 
I don't know but I would keep those claims open.   There is noway she had two packages, going to different people not show up and get sent back to her.  Then send the same exact messages to those in question.  I'm not buying it.  Plus not answering emails or providing proof of shipment is only adding to her being guilty.